Kinda weird that you made this whole post without mentioning your BPD, which explains your irrational behavior.
You need therapy, and your bf deserves better. I have BPD so I get it. But you need to be more empathetic ??
Try and understand what he’s going through instead of shaming him for being single for 7 years and then getting offended when the guy you’ve been official with for “a few months” doesn’t wanna say I love you after going through some shit. You shouldn’t feel this way about someone you love, but BPD does that, IG.
If you really love him you should leave him before you seriously hurt him.
No you really don’t trust her. Need to work on that
But your feelings are valid and she is NOT HELPING with her defensive behavior. Why does she not seem to want you there?
Kinda weird that you made this whole post without mentioning your BPD, which explains your irrational behavior.
You need therapy, and your bf deserves better. I have BPD so I get it. But you need to be more empathetic ??
Try and understand what he’s going through instead of shaming him for being single for 7 years and then getting offended when the guy you’ve been official with for “a few months” doesn’t wanna say I love you after going through some shit. You shouldn’t feel this way about someone you love, but BPD does that, IG.
If you really love him you should leave him before you seriously hurt him.