100% agree. As much as I’m trying to not come off as judgmental for the jail thing, (we can’t change the past, based off the short sentence I’m guessing it couldn’t be anything crazy, etc) it’s not like he’s going away because of something positive for their future.
Sure I’d want to spend my time with my partner the night before I wasn’t gonna see them again for an extended period of time. Which is exactly what you did OP.
But expecting OP to take the time to plan something fancy seems strange to me. Like they have bigger fish to fry imo.
The red flags are making my skin itch. Such disrespect.
100% agree. As much as I’m trying to not come off as judgmental for the jail thing, (we can’t change the past, based off the short sentence I’m guessing it couldn’t be anything crazy, etc) it’s not like he’s going away because of something positive for their future.
Sure I’d want to spend my time with my partner the night before I wasn’t gonna see them again for an extended period of time. Which is exactly what you did OP.
But expecting OP to take the time to plan something fancy seems strange to me. Like they have bigger fish to fry imo.