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Date: October 10, 2022
It’s over dude. Move on to someone who actually wants to be with you. She’s going back to him.
Bro, you sound very very insecure and it’s not her job to fix that for you. You still think she’s lying when she explained that it was a weird competition between her and her friend (it is indeed weird to make a sport out of stealing clothes) and said it’s no problem to get rid of them. Don’t feel so threatened by some ambiguous dudes from her past, and if you can’t get past that you’ll have a very rough time making connections with people.
Forgive never forget.
Forgive is for you forget is for them. All cluster b disorders originate in abuse and fear. It’s not your fault or his fault but it is his responsibility to not take his disorder out on you just as much as it is yours to not take it out on the new guy.
That is not the main point, most birthday's celebration I have been on are either after work hours, or not precisely on birthday but on weekend. Did you suggest to host celebration on weekend instead?
Not to mention, the main point still stands. She thought you would not be available. You didn't inform her otherwise and even more importantly if your employer did not agree you wouldn't celebrate her birthday with her, which seems to a permanent issue for your gf and future dealbreaker.
It's over, honey. You have to end this. He's delusional.
I don’t like to have that sort of negative mentality
Play your own practical joke since it’s soooo funny! Don’t say anything anymore and you have two options: 1) do all invitations for a different/fake location, even her parents. Send car for parents/anyone who would tell him the day of and take them to the right place. He walks into a conference room with strangers in a clown suit an hour away from the location. Funny huh? 2) hire friends/guards at entrance. If they see someone in clown suit, they cuff him, and arrest him. Take him for a drive, drop him off at a McDonald’s!! Hilarious, just like his pranks!
Should I cave in and give him another chance?
Probably not … he straight up lied to you … about another woman. He's not trustworthy, and without trust … yeay, bye-bye relationship. Probably better to just move on. There are good, decent trustworthy folks … he ain't one of 'em.
No nude feeling, eh? ?
It's also important to remember what sex therapist Sue Johansen used to say, which is that he still has ten fingers and a thumb that he can use to help please her, not to mention any sex toys they might use. Make the most of what you've got and you can still have a happy sex life.
And if all else fails remember the joke about the woman who told her lover his organ was too small. He replied that he didn't know he was playing in a cathedral.
Even if you can get past this, my biggest concern is putting money, love, irreplaceable years of your life, and put in the nude work and effort to rebuild trust into this relationship possibly create a child with her only to find out it has happened again. It wasn’t a lonely drunken whirlwind accident this was a long-standing affair at the beginning of your marriage that she was able to stomach both betraying you and lying to you repeatedly during the entire experience- three years have passed and she is still keeping him in the whims but using non cheating conversation as a less risky and obvious placeholder to keep tabs on him and keep her in his mind. I recommend quietly talking to a lawyer just to be aware of your rights and what you might be facing. Don’t tell her your plans to an honest person sometimes self preservation feels selfish and dishonest. She doesn’t play by the same rules as you in love and will be ten times worse as an adversary.
Begging you not to even risk having a baby with her with the possibility of you being forced to trust that she will protect and prioritize your child without you presence 50% of that child’s life- but always afraid for them, knowing she is a comfortable liar.
(this can happen in a well meaning attempt by either to save the marriage or even a plot to anchor you if/when you decide to leave her)
It’s a scary helpless feeling and a life an innocent baby human doesn’t deserve nor do you
Please do go to therapy but your own private therapist no matter which path you choose
You didn’t deserve to be treated that way!
with so much misinformation out there about these issues and how it effects others, many will just to answer based on the norm. Things are not always that set in stone.
Its well worth the effort to gain any information you can going forward.
For a side note, I have been married for 33 years to my wife who is biplolar and have 3 wonderful healthy children all grown up and on their own. It take work as with everything worth while and wish the world to you going forward.