Thank you for sharing. I experience that as well; my partner was trying with a question “what is wrong” for weeks, but I just couldn't open myself up. After we broke up he told me he did everything that was possible and I believe him, but I guess I need a different approach when I shut down and asking the same question over and over again with coldness attached (as he got annoyed with me) isn't helping.
I also had a problem with never sharing my feelings and I am making improvement as well. I have a feeling like I'm improving in all other areas, just not this one with shutting down with my beloved one. It's nice to hear that you are making progress and that there is hope for me.
Thank you for your experience. She wants me to remain living in our apartment and just be mutual. I can do that and seeing what you said I agree with the going back in her life will cause more damage. I'm seeking help way too late for my problems I knew I've had
What your doing is emotional cheating and I can tell you if your wife finds out that your hanging out, she will divorce you in a second and you can then have her old best friend. Marriages are very hot and you using your time and energy on your friend instead of your wife and child.
Somehow your wife is picking up something, and this is why your arguing. You either step back into your marriage and cut off contact with Katie. Its one or the other, but you cannot have both.
I will not call you any names, I will not say anything to insult you. You know what your doing is wrong and I am only answering the best that I can.
Maybe it’s time you gave this woman a call. Does she even know he’s married to you? Does she know you’re 32 weeks pregnant, need his support at home and he’s spending money on the trip that’s otherwise needed for baby stuff and getting the nursery ready?
I think she needs to know what she’s destroying with the trip and that it isn’t just an innocent casual trip on your husbands part.
Tysm for your reply. I know I can just be polite but to me, its important as I want to be involved in his life, especially as we are apart. It also feels like they aren't even trying to be polite to me which is frustrating.
The best thing to do is terminate the pregnancy. I understand that this isn't an easy thing to do, but it's what's best for everyone. If you want to be a parent, wait until you are financially and mentally stable and hopefully have a good co-parent.
The bacteria you need to pee out after sex comes from him. So he should feel gross, that he is making you sick. Unless he's experiencing a UTI which would be in his urethra, the bacteria is then on the outside. It's nice to know he's not getting UTIs, but maybe he should be washing before sex (which is always nice if specific requests are made anyway).
A lot of times you can get a quick and favourable divorce if your spouse cheated.
And she sent him photo proof. I hope he takes her to the cleaners!!
Thank you for sharing. I experience that as well; my partner was trying with a question “what is wrong” for weeks, but I just couldn't open myself up. After we broke up he told me he did everything that was possible and I believe him, but I guess I need a different approach when I shut down and asking the same question over and over again with coldness attached (as he got annoyed with me) isn't helping.
I also had a problem with never sharing my feelings and I am making improvement as well. I have a feeling like I'm improving in all other areas, just not this one with shutting down with my beloved one. It's nice to hear that you are making progress and that there is hope for me.
Thank you for your experience. She wants me to remain living in our apartment and just be mutual. I can do that and seeing what you said I agree with the going back in her life will cause more damage. I'm seeking help way too late for my problems I knew I've had
OP,
What your doing is emotional cheating and I can tell you if your wife finds out that your hanging out, she will divorce you in a second and you can then have her old best friend. Marriages are very hot and you using your time and energy on your friend instead of your wife and child.
Somehow your wife is picking up something, and this is why your arguing. You either step back into your marriage and cut off contact with Katie. Its one or the other, but you cannot have both.
I will not call you any names, I will not say anything to insult you. You know what your doing is wrong and I am only answering the best that I can.
Maybe it’s time you gave this woman a call. Does she even know he’s married to you? Does she know you’re 32 weeks pregnant, need his support at home and he’s spending money on the trip that’s otherwise needed for baby stuff and getting the nursery ready?
I think she needs to know what she’s destroying with the trip and that it isn’t just an innocent casual trip on your husbands part.
Tysm for your reply. I know I can just be polite but to me, its important as I want to be involved in his life, especially as we are apart. It also feels like they aren't even trying to be polite to me which is frustrating.
I'm also at uni but just a bit further away.
I like how comfy everyone is with shitting on this guy for not liking being lied to.
But she is posting.
At the time you were the oldest daughter. Keep the ring.
The best thing to do is terminate the pregnancy. I understand that this isn't an easy thing to do, but it's what's best for everyone. If you want to be a parent, wait until you are financially and mentally stable and hopefully have a good co-parent.
The bacteria you need to pee out after sex comes from him. So he should feel gross, that he is making you sick. Unless he's experiencing a UTI which would be in his urethra, the bacteria is then on the outside. It's nice to know he's not getting UTIs, but maybe he should be washing before sex (which is always nice if specific requests are made anyway).