And yea it makes sense that she ll be unhappy and i did apologize for her and told her i REALLY wanted some time alone that night . eitherway why would she make me feel bad and guilty for my normal need of some time alone to recharge ?
Mom doesn’t trust or really respect most men. That’s a problem. I recommend honesty. She needs to trust you. She needs to know that you have listened and learned from her. That you are a capable young woman who would never tolerate less than what you deserve from anyone. I had financial help from my parents. Until there were strings attached. Then I said no and explained why. Best thing I could have done. I actually still got the support but the expectations were gone after we discussed it. It’s a tough spot. I really hope that mom can learn to trust that she raised a smart young woman who is going to make good choices.
Yeah, I confronted him. I couldn’t help myself. He straight up lied telling me “I didn’t delete any messages, I didn’t send any inappropriate videos” he smirked when I showed him the multiple sexual themed comedy vids he sent her and he responded with “it’s not a big deal, I sent it to everyone” everyone meaning the girl and two of his other friends. He finally admitted after me pressuring him that ‘he deleted their messages because he figured she was only messaging him and not me, and he didn’t want me to get upset’
So…all I'm thinking is that, if Christopher and Dana Reeve found a way to have sex almost anyone can…
Also check sent messages and photo email attachments
You sure he didn't want you to find those? I can't imagine someone trying to get away with it being so careless
And yea it makes sense that she ll be unhappy and i did apologize for her and told her i REALLY wanted some time alone that night . eitherway why would she make me feel bad and guilty for my normal need of some time alone to recharge ?
Mom doesn’t trust or really respect most men. That’s a problem. I recommend honesty. She needs to trust you. She needs to know that you have listened and learned from her. That you are a capable young woman who would never tolerate less than what you deserve from anyone. I had financial help from my parents. Until there were strings attached. Then I said no and explained why. Best thing I could have done. I actually still got the support but the expectations were gone after we discussed it. It’s a tough spot. I really hope that mom can learn to trust that she raised a smart young woman who is going to make good choices.
Yeah, I confronted him. I couldn’t help myself. He straight up lied telling me “I didn’t delete any messages, I didn’t send any inappropriate videos” he smirked when I showed him the multiple sexual themed comedy vids he sent her and he responded with “it’s not a big deal, I sent it to everyone” everyone meaning the girl and two of his other friends. He finally admitted after me pressuring him that ‘he deleted their messages because he figured she was only messaging him and not me, and he didn’t want me to get upset’