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Money. And who would I on-line with in another town? I would like to move but I’ve only been here 2 months. My rental contract is a year
Sorry but I think you are overreacting, please don't worry about it.
Thank you, I will try not to.
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Yup… I am spiralling.
Do you actually know why his kids don’t visit and his family disowned him? What was the fight about?
Yeah, no. I say this as a person who suffers from depression- if she's too depressed to wash the dishes or learn how to cook a meal, she's too depressed to be running off to vacay 4 times a year.
Take this as a sign of his character, or rather lack of character. He doesn't seem to be genuinely trying to improve himself as a man, but someone who makes excuses and says he'll do it, all the while having no such intention.
I think you’re right tbh
You aren’t a couple though? She wants to break up.
This. In fact, the new owners could hold him liable if he’s fixing things on his own and somehow ends up doing something incorrectly and doing more damage. There is no way I would go and make repairs myself. Certainly provide them with a list of vendors/repair services you typically used, but acting as this woman’s personal handyman is very strange and pretty inappropriate.
The mean guy will come out more and more, the longer your relationship goes on. It’s classic abusive behavior. Little by little, he’s testing the waters to see what you will put up with.
Every thing you put up with is one more thing he can get away with. So, he’ll act a little worse, or just as bad a little more of the time. And the cycle will repeat.
It’s all intended to skew your impression of what’s acceptable in a relationship, as you become inured to being treated like shit. Until eventually you actually think it’s normal for him to treat you like shit all or most of the time. Until you believe that’s what you deserve. Because the whole time he’s getting you used to it, he’s also breaking down your sense of self-worth and your self esteem.
2 months in shouldn't be this hot. If you don't want to be in limbo then don't. End it and move on. Ball is in her court if she wants to pursue you at that point.
Just as you said I did think in the “now” it was ok for a while and now I’m thinking long term now with this new information about the debt she may be a financial liability long term.
>she lost her virginity at 14
Not saying it's impossible she had sex when she was 14, but it does raise my eyebrows. How did she lose her virginity, was it consensual or rape? If it was consensual, was it with someone her own age, or someone much much older?
> I know like 3 of them and one of them fucked her in the beach in front of a group of my friends but she was really drunk
I'm almost 100% certain she didn't have sex on a beach, she was raped on the beach – probably when she was 17. And if they are your friends, really re-assess who your friends are.
>Sometimes I want to dump her for this but I feel it is stupid.
My gut feeling is that there's a lot of sexual abuse that happened to her that you and us don't know about in her life. You and her have only been dating for 3 months. I suggest taking things slow, and if she opens up about her past to you, to suggest her to get therapy (and potentially break up with her because she's not ready for a relationship).