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How many issues are there in your relationship in total now? If you are being lied to in your face you aren't paranoid, but should already know that. Besides relationship when you can't trust each other and your goal is spy on your instead of fix your issues is doomed anyway.
Ty and yea i have been trying to get switched to day shift so i can be there more to share the load and help out but im the least experienced operator at my job so i doubt i will get the switch anytime soon. I have always been supportive and tried to be there for my wife but sometimes it just upsets her because i try to talk it through. She said its because i can be and i quote ” too well adjusted”
i’ve tried out other medications/ combinations/ but this one was the best for me. I never cared too much about masturbating, but now that I’m in a relationship it’s become more of an issue 🙁 any time I’ve tried to slightly change my medication, my mental health goes off and I slowly become dysfunctional. I really can’t afford that happening, after 4 years of mental health issues coming in a cycle, I need to keep myself stable and functional, but the consequence of that is my relationship having slight issues in our sex life 🙁 i’m so confused on if there’s anything i can do or if I’ll just have to accept this as it is. I don’t mind not cumming, but i know it hurts him
Let him know what you’ve been doing. I wouldn’t exactly call it cheating, but you’ve asked him to be exclusive when you aren’t holding yourself to the same standard.
He’s allowed to take as long as he wants to decide the future of his involvement in the relationship, and you’re allowed to leave at any time. How long he takes to decide doesn’t excuse your actions at all.
Be open and honest, tell him what you’ve been doing and that, in your opinion, he’s been taking too long to decide. Only then can you two have an honest discussion about your future and where you both want to go from here.
If tomorrow he decides he wants to get back in a relationship with you, and you never tell him what you’ve been up to, the guilt will eat you alive. Get it out in the open so you both can evaluate things with all the facts on the table.
Not gonna lie, she’s right. At 21 I was living at home still but I knew what things costs. I had my own car insurance and car, did my own laundry, cooked my own food most of the time, paid my own phone bill, etc. I got married a year later. My husband had to learn quick but he was fully into that and wanted to. Your family might be loving and supportive and that’s great but they aren’t really doing you a service here by doing everything for you. Do you have a good paying job or you just think that because you don’t have bills except your car? She is absolutely right too about you living on your own before you two live together. She probably wants to make sure you can take care of yourself first so she doesn’t become your mom. There is nothing wrong with living at home at your age, shit is expensive, but you also need to grow up too. Start paying for yourself.
Can you drive?
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How many issues are there in your relationship in total now? If you are being lied to in your face you aren't paranoid, but should already know that. Besides relationship when you can't trust each other and your goal is spy on your instead of fix your issues is doomed anyway.
At this point you should ask if you can be best man at their wedding good lord dude
Ty and yea i have been trying to get switched to day shift so i can be there more to share the load and help out but im the least experienced operator at my job so i doubt i will get the switch anytime soon. I have always been supportive and tried to be there for my wife but sometimes it just upsets her because i try to talk it through. She said its because i can be and i quote ” too well adjusted”
i’ve tried out other medications/ combinations/ but this one was the best for me. I never cared too much about masturbating, but now that I’m in a relationship it’s become more of an issue 🙁 any time I’ve tried to slightly change my medication, my mental health goes off and I slowly become dysfunctional. I really can’t afford that happening, after 4 years of mental health issues coming in a cycle, I need to keep myself stable and functional, but the consequence of that is my relationship having slight issues in our sex life 🙁 i’m so confused on if there’s anything i can do or if I’ll just have to accept this as it is. I don’t mind not cumming, but i know it hurts him
which NPC was it? father winter? the obvious choice
Just file that case he is rape you. Without your permission he is using your body. Don't consider your cheating husband.
Just expose his best friend.
Your already asked him divorce but he is threatening you and force you to online with him.
Don't forgive that rapist.
Expose that ugly man to everyone.
Let him know what you’ve been doing. I wouldn’t exactly call it cheating, but you’ve asked him to be exclusive when you aren’t holding yourself to the same standard.
He’s allowed to take as long as he wants to decide the future of his involvement in the relationship, and you’re allowed to leave at any time. How long he takes to decide doesn’t excuse your actions at all.
Be open and honest, tell him what you’ve been doing and that, in your opinion, he’s been taking too long to decide. Only then can you two have an honest discussion about your future and where you both want to go from here.
If tomorrow he decides he wants to get back in a relationship with you, and you never tell him what you’ve been up to, the guilt will eat you alive. Get it out in the open so you both can evaluate things with all the facts on the table.
Unfortunately I met him over a year ago.
Not gonna lie, she’s right. At 21 I was living at home still but I knew what things costs. I had my own car insurance and car, did my own laundry, cooked my own food most of the time, paid my own phone bill, etc. I got married a year later. My husband had to learn quick but he was fully into that and wanted to. Your family might be loving and supportive and that’s great but they aren’t really doing you a service here by doing everything for you. Do you have a good paying job or you just think that because you don’t have bills except your car? She is absolutely right too about you living on your own before you two live together. She probably wants to make sure you can take care of yourself first so she doesn’t become your mom. There is nothing wrong with living at home at your age, shit is expensive, but you also need to grow up too. Start paying for yourself.
I got the understanding the husband did not tell the wife about his shitty day or his headache
Yepp these are my exact thoughts as well!