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He deliberately and repeatedly created very ugly conflict with you.
Do you know his real reason for being such a jerk?
He began by criticizing your body, like it was something he owned and you weren't taking care of.
He continued by telling you how unsatisfactory you are, telling you to get out, putting his hands on you, ordering you to do this and that, not allowing you to leave after he'd told you to get out.
And the the final act of self-harming in order to get you to stay, and the blubbering apologies.
Just start making a rational plan for leaving. You aren't on the lease so you can leave anytime. Do not discuss it with him. Do not give him the opportunity to manipulate you further.
Do not worry about his mental/emotional state. Do not worry about how he will pay the rent without you.
Whatever is wrong with him is not something you can fix, and it is not something you are responsible for.
Never stay in a situation where you are threatened with physical violence. Never be in a situation where the other person has the power to make you homeless. Never ever pay rent to someone who threatens you.
If I had to guess what's wrong with him, I'd say he's cheating on you and is struggling with his feelings of shame and guilt. He wants to keep having sex with the other person, but wants to have you too.
You mentioned your mental health and all of the issues that you have, but do you ever consider your SO's mental health and the pressure they're under?
Every marriage goes through rough patches. Marriage is work, but it's worth it.
Your husband is not responsible for you holding in your feelings all of these years, and it's unfair to blame him for that. You should look at this from a different perspective. Your SO is also stressed and under pressure. You have to find a way to talk to each other and commit to connect with each other, communicating with each other, and listening to each other.
What’s the point of this arrangement? It doesn’t seem like you’re working on anything. There’s no affection, no intimacy, no working out your problems.
He’s clearly keeping you on a string while he goes out and does his own thing.
You’re torturing yourself. Rip off the bandaid and file for divorce.
It's exactly as it sounds. Part of him wants to hook up and have a casual night, but he's also looking for something more long-term and serious. He knows that can't really happen with you. Best not waste your vacation time it. Maybe a “Okay, well, I had fun chatting. I've told you im down, you know where I'm staying at, and for how long. Hit me up when you've made up your mind.”
Okay, so on its own a 50-something-year-old man targeting women in their 20's would be the biggest red flag of them all. But, let's be honest, he's only going after girls in their 20s because few men that are practically senior citizens are going to get freshly legal 18-year-olds without society as a whole interfering.
But if that's not enough, you're sitting here telling us about how your boyfriend is abusive. And how he has despicable age-play fantasies he FORCES you to indulge him with?
You need emergency therapy. The fact you're sitting here asking how to fix the problem instead of running as fast and as far from this walking red flag as you can tells me something needs to be dealt with so that you can get the confidence and self-respect you need to not only completely cut ties with this nutjob, but ensure you never end up in a bad situation like this (or, God forbid, even worse) in the future.
Huh, you are incredibly manipulative, and abusive. I have no idea, how you can look at anything you've done and not realize how toxic you are. What you did is so damn grimy.
What you should do? Get out of their lives, you are not good for them, they need to get as much space from you as they can get. You cannot be serious when you say that you're their friend. It's not possible.
Get a life and online it. Stop being such a sleaze. That is what you should do.
He deliberately and repeatedly created very ugly conflict with you.
Do you know his real reason for being such a jerk?
He began by criticizing your body, like it was something he owned and you weren't taking care of.
He continued by telling you how unsatisfactory you are, telling you to get out, putting his hands on you, ordering you to do this and that, not allowing you to leave after he'd told you to get out.
And the the final act of self-harming in order to get you to stay, and the blubbering apologies.
Just start making a rational plan for leaving. You aren't on the lease so you can leave anytime. Do not discuss it with him. Do not give him the opportunity to manipulate you further.
Do not worry about his mental/emotional state. Do not worry about how he will pay the rent without you.
Whatever is wrong with him is not something you can fix, and it is not something you are responsible for.
Never stay in a situation where you are threatened with physical violence. Never be in a situation where the other person has the power to make you homeless. Never ever pay rent to someone who threatens you.
If I had to guess what's wrong with him, I'd say he's cheating on you and is struggling with his feelings of shame and guilt. He wants to keep having sex with the other person, but wants to have you too.
Same my hubby's beard is soft. It's the worst when it's prickly!
You mentioned your mental health and all of the issues that you have, but do you ever consider your SO's mental health and the pressure they're under?
Every marriage goes through rough patches. Marriage is work, but it's worth it.
Your husband is not responsible for you holding in your feelings all of these years, and it's unfair to blame him for that. You should look at this from a different perspective. Your SO is also stressed and under pressure. You have to find a way to talk to each other and commit to connect with each other, communicating with each other, and listening to each other.
What’s the point of this arrangement? It doesn’t seem like you’re working on anything. There’s no affection, no intimacy, no working out your problems.
He’s clearly keeping you on a string while he goes out and does his own thing.
You’re torturing yourself. Rip off the bandaid and file for divorce.
He sounds like a his conning you.
Your friends are right. You are overreacting.
He isn’t your BF. You aren’t in a relationship. You two have only been talking for a month. He is allowed to date other people.
You are coming across as kind of unhinged, so you need to take a second to breathe.
In fact, your whole mindset here is messed up. I’d recommend taking a break from dating all together.
It's exactly as it sounds. Part of him wants to hook up and have a casual night, but he's also looking for something more long-term and serious. He knows that can't really happen with you. Best not waste your vacation time it. Maybe a “Okay, well, I had fun chatting. I've told you im down, you know where I'm staying at, and for how long. Hit me up when you've made up your mind.”
Okay, so on its own a 50-something-year-old man targeting women in their 20's would be the biggest red flag of them all. But, let's be honest, he's only going after girls in their 20s because few men that are practically senior citizens are going to get freshly legal 18-year-olds without society as a whole interfering.
But if that's not enough, you're sitting here telling us about how your boyfriend is abusive. And how he has despicable age-play fantasies he FORCES you to indulge him with?
You need emergency therapy. The fact you're sitting here asking how to fix the problem instead of running as fast and as far from this walking red flag as you can tells me something needs to be dealt with so that you can get the confidence and self-respect you need to not only completely cut ties with this nutjob, but ensure you never end up in a bad situation like this (or, God forbid, even worse) in the future.
Yes. That is abusive.
clorox wipes on your private areas? and you lived to tell the tale?
Huh, you are incredibly manipulative, and abusive. I have no idea, how you can look at anything you've done and not realize how toxic you are. What you did is so damn grimy.
What you should do? Get out of their lives, you are not good for them, they need to get as much space from you as they can get. You cannot be serious when you say that you're their friend. It's not possible.
Get a life and online it. Stop being such a sleaze. That is what you should do.