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Date: September 26, 2022
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I don't know what this means, never mind what he means
As an old person over here..you can’t fully love someone you have never met in person and there’s no way you should feel “more.” This is an on-line friendship with a stranger. The full boat, like the meal with all the extras will happen when you have a IRL BF. I wouldn’t stress out about what you’re feeling for this guy and you don’t have to see him. ❣️ It’s not you…it’s the trying to feel totally connected to someone you have never met.
Leave him be
“It was her that came up with the idea, she told me that she wanted to have other experiences, but loved me so much that she couldn't imagine a life without me.”
She loves you so much that she's willing to pressure you into something that kills 90+% of relationships that try it?
“Yesterday we were having a conversation about marriage and when I said I was not looking forward to it she seemed so heartbroken that I'm feeling like the biggest piece of shit that ever existed.”
She's both gaslighting you and emotionally manipulating you if she's making you think you can marry in this relationship after she opened it for herself.
It's up to you to decide. You say you might regret this for the rest of your life. Well, the other option is to think about how you're feeling right now and realize it's only downhill from here. So do you want to have some regrets for the rest of your life, or do you want to feel worse than now for the rest of your life?
For advice, there's not much more than to try and split up on good terms. Others gave some good advice. Show her you don't mean to hurt her, but she's hurt you beyond healing. And that you can't work it out. And then move on, heal, and look for someone who shares the same values in life as you.
You can also try to fix the relationship, and you might. But know that you will not forget this feeling. It will always be there and you will resent her for the rest of your life that you're together. If that's worth the love you have now, try to fix it. But weight it out for yourself.
If you want you could try having a conversation with her explaining how much having a cat means to you and asking her to please reconsider.
The downside of this is that even if she agrees what happens if you bring in a new cat and it takes some time to settle in (and annoys her with meowing or lord knows what in the meantime). Then she would make both of your lives miserable until you returned it or moved out.
My heart really goes out to you. I have almost always had a cat and they improve the quality of my life beyond measure. There was a year or so when my last cat had died and my boyfriend (now husband) was adamant he would never on-line with a cat due to bad experiences with cats in the past (cats in bad environments with little care).
He eventually changed his mind when I wouldn't shut up about cats (not begging him, just talking about them a lot or reacting with joy when I see one or gasp… get to pet one). I let him pick out our rescue and he's a huge fan of cats now.
So I'm sorry you're going through this and I hope you can find a better living situation soon with someone who treats you with respect and kindness.
You are welcome. Best of luck to you!
tbh u have a unique opportunity to make the whole experience about her! i wouldn’t take her laughing personally i mean ‘textbook premature ejaculator’ Is really funny phrasing tbh. if i were u i’d laugh it off and get some fun toys to use together.
You have a 10 month old who isn’t sleeping more than 2 hours at a time? Time for you to attend the next pediatrician appointment (he should have one in the next 2 months anyway) and straight up bring this up with the pediatrician in front of your wife. If she won’t listen to you, perhaps she’ll listen to a professional.
Honestly people keep asking my sister when she's having another one, my niece is 2 now, and her honest answer is “she doesn't know because she likes the one she has” which I think is hilarious, she's just being honest about the difficulties of raising a child
Truthfully it is the past. This new guy has to have a life and so does your mother (who also has a past).
I wouldn't ever trust him with my children, but you can still have a relationship from a distance.