Have you asked to go with her or has she otherwise invited you? Have you shared your concerns for her safety with her? Communicate! Your concerns are all valid; if she makes a fuss about not wanting you to come I think that's a major red flag.
TBH at that age they are stubborn and they think they are the sh1t , there is little way to proceed except to dump her and make her someone elses problem
If you can't cope with life change your life.
Ew your husband is a creep!
I’m not looking to date this young adult
Have you asked to go with her or has she otherwise invited you? Have you shared your concerns for her safety with her? Communicate! Your concerns are all valid; if she makes a fuss about not wanting you to come I think that's a major red flag.
TBH at that age they are stubborn and they think they are the sh1t , there is little way to proceed except to dump her and make her someone elses problem
I'm on the waiting list
He's in for a rude awakening then