I did not ask multiple times and am completely okay with everything from her past. This is not what i meant and also definitely not the reason I decided to ask other people for advice. Anyways thank you for your insight.
That’s for you to decide. Are you ok with living with these feelings? Do you enjoy feeling like this? There is no magic panacea for this kind of thing. People will give you anecdotes like try thinking of something else or get therapy, but those very rarely work.
You need experience man. You need to know what it’s like being in a relationship where you don’t have these feelings. God knows she needs to learn how to have a healthy relationship as well.
There are all kinds of women out there, and all kinds of relationships. I get the feeling you’re mixing up your feelings of being happy she’s with you with being happy in the relationship. There’s a very big difference, and it’s a big trap you can fall into, especially for someone with little experience.
She wants like a relationship without the labels. She always say shit like she misses me.
ugh. that's exhausting. I think some people compare themselves and assume everyone else does the same thing.
The REAL problem is that your boyfriend feels that he has to keep porn from you.
Have you and he discussed porn? Have you explained to him that you don't care if he watches porn?
Yeah she will, she just sleeps with us right now because it's practical.
I did not ask multiple times and am completely okay with everything from her past. This is not what i meant and also definitely not the reason I decided to ask other people for advice. Anyways thank you for your insight.
That’s for you to decide. Are you ok with living with these feelings? Do you enjoy feeling like this? There is no magic panacea for this kind of thing. People will give you anecdotes like try thinking of something else or get therapy, but those very rarely work.
You need experience man. You need to know what it’s like being in a relationship where you don’t have these feelings. God knows she needs to learn how to have a healthy relationship as well.
There are all kinds of women out there, and all kinds of relationships. I get the feeling you’re mixing up your feelings of being happy she’s with you with being happy in the relationship. There’s a very big difference, and it’s a big trap you can fall into, especially for someone with little experience.
We don't make enough to hire someone.. and our space is small enough that I think we have the ability to handle the work ourselves.