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It can be intimidating to approach someone you are interested in, especially if you only see them in a certain setting like a lecture. However, there are a few steps you can take to make it easier.
First, try to find a common interest or topic to discuss with the person. This can provide a natural entry point for conversation and can help you get to know them better. For example, if you both attend the same lectures, you could mention something that was discussed in the lecture and ask for their opinion.
Another approach is to try to find an opportunity to talk to them outside of the lecture hall. If you see them on campus, you could try to strike up a conversation and see if they are interested in continuing the conversation at a later time. This can help you build a rapport and can provide a more relaxed setting for getting to know each other better.
Remember that it is okay to be yourself, even if you are introverted or socially awkward. People will appreciate your honesty and authenticity, and you may find that the person you are interested in is just as nervous as you are. Good luck!
It's always nude to move to a new city. It's super brave what you did there!
It sounds to me as if you're just looking for a new community. People. They are important to feel safe and accepted. It's incredibly difficult in these times to meet new people and it takes a lot of time to develop a 'close' band. So don't beat yourself up over that, please! ?
Maybe talk online to people to meet them and see if you get along in real life? In Europe there are loads of live! groups for expats who organize meet ups (don't know where you're from though). Try some other things you can think of that will be slightly out of your comfort zone but which you believe you could enjoy. Such as going to the library and read a book, go check out a concert or a music jam, go drink a coffee in a new bar, look for a way to pick up your hobby, maybe look for a new hobby, something that you've always wanted to do, or something completely new you might be interessted in learning? Go to the nearest sports club and just apply for a sport that seems 'quite ok'? Look for events that trigger your curiosity and go there. That's the best way to meet new people and also to give yourself confidence in trying new things? Ask some advice from locals, so you get to know the city better.
You can always ask the people who know you well to support you in 'trying new things' in a way you believe that could help you. Such as… From time to time asking you what the new thing is you've tried and how the experience was for you? I don't know what that could be for you ofc, it's a very personal thing.
I hope you can find your answers and hope you realize that everyone who's abroad struggles with exactly this feeling from time to time. Once you're really fed up, you will notice and you're always able to make other changes, such as going back to your parents. There's nothing wrong with that. Better to just give it a try, at least then you know for sure.
First off, I am sorry this is happening to you. Abusers rarely change. She has already proven that she cannot change. She doesn't want to, ergo emotional blackmail. My friend, it's time to move on. You need police reports, and you definitely should try to get full custody of the children. If she wants visitation, it should definitely be supervised. This is not your fault, no matter what she says. Good luck!
Attempting to punish your partner is emotionally abusive.
Being in a relationship = you are on the same team. Loving someone means acting with their best interests at heart.
In a healthy relationship, when there is conflict you start from the position of the disagreement being about the issue, not about the person. Therefore, the discussion is about resolving the issue, and even if people get angry there is no name calling, no insults, and no comments or actions aimed at hurting the other person. The aim of talking is to find a resolution everyone is happy with, even if both people feel strongly and differently about what that should be.
The problem here isn't that you aren't making your partner food. The problem is that you think that your emotions, in this case anger, are a reason for deliberately causing another person pain. You made a plan to deliberately hurt someone you claim to love.
Typically, someone who thinks this is normal or OK hadn't had healthy relationships modelled to them and has been a victim of emotional abuse themselves. OP, please go to therapy and unpack why you think this is OK, because it's not. This is not how you take care of yourself or advocate for what you need, and it's not how you love other people.
Your mom has anxiety and is expressing it by being overly worrying and intrusive.
Time to turn the tables back on her. Perhaps you and sister can meet with her face on and tell her that she is being intrusive, disruptive and annoying. That while she excuses it with just worrying, it is affecting your life and you need her to seek some help with managing her anxiety in ways that do not impact you. I would also be blunt that it is suffocating and that if it continues, your natural tendency will be to eliminate her from social media and maybe only contact her once a week (or month) or something. I would be firm that you are not going to be a victim of her anxiety and she needs to work on getting it under reasonable control.
To be fair, she is kinda late in life to change personality wise. It is not too late in life for you however to modify how you deal with it. Placating an anxious person is a tiresome and circular task that never ends. They are ever coming up with yet another worry or problem.
“Be careful what you wish for”, there is a reason this is a thing.
Of course you're going to be depressed. You said yes but it is probably still effecting you almost as much as cheating, minus the lying and betrayal.
That being said, did you want to say yes, or did you do it just to appease the situation and get back home. If this is the case then you should have said no, and certainly can tell him no (more) now.
If you truly want them to continue then you will likely also need counseling as you may be putting off vibes you're not aware of.
It’s a naked subject. She may want that but not know how to do that. I mean, how do you even begin to talk about these things? Honestly I think only a professional would know. She may be bringing it up to you because she feels like you’re the only one she can talk to it about and keeping it to herself could be eating at her. Again, you aren’t the person to be picking up this emotional baggage, but I think there is a logical explanation behind her behavior.
It can be intimidating to approach someone you are interested in, especially if you only see them in a certain setting like a lecture. However, there are a few steps you can take to make it easier.
First, try to find a common interest or topic to discuss with the person. This can provide a natural entry point for conversation and can help you get to know them better. For example, if you both attend the same lectures, you could mention something that was discussed in the lecture and ask for their opinion.
Another approach is to try to find an opportunity to talk to them outside of the lecture hall. If you see them on campus, you could try to strike up a conversation and see if they are interested in continuing the conversation at a later time. This can help you build a rapport and can provide a more relaxed setting for getting to know each other better.
Remember that it is okay to be yourself, even if you are introverted or socially awkward. People will appreciate your honesty and authenticity, and you may find that the person you are interested in is just as nervous as you are. Good luck!
It's always nude to move to a new city. It's super brave what you did there!
It sounds to me as if you're just looking for a new community. People. They are important to feel safe and accepted. It's incredibly difficult in these times to meet new people and it takes a lot of time to develop a 'close' band. So don't beat yourself up over that, please! ?
Maybe talk online to people to meet them and see if you get along in real life? In Europe there are loads of live! groups for expats who organize meet ups (don't know where you're from though). Try some other things you can think of that will be slightly out of your comfort zone but which you believe you could enjoy. Such as going to the library and read a book, go check out a concert or a music jam, go drink a coffee in a new bar, look for a way to pick up your hobby, maybe look for a new hobby, something that you've always wanted to do, or something completely new you might be interessted in learning? Go to the nearest sports club and just apply for a sport that seems 'quite ok'? Look for events that trigger your curiosity and go there. That's the best way to meet new people and also to give yourself confidence in trying new things? Ask some advice from locals, so you get to know the city better.
You can always ask the people who know you well to support you in 'trying new things' in a way you believe that could help you. Such as… From time to time asking you what the new thing is you've tried and how the experience was for you? I don't know what that could be for you ofc, it's a very personal thing.
I hope you can find your answers and hope you realize that everyone who's abroad struggles with exactly this feeling from time to time. Once you're really fed up, you will notice and you're always able to make other changes, such as going back to your parents. There's nothing wrong with that. Better to just give it a try, at least then you know for sure.
Wishing you nothing but the best though!
First off, I am sorry this is happening to you. Abusers rarely change. She has already proven that she cannot change. She doesn't want to, ergo emotional blackmail. My friend, it's time to move on. You need police reports, and you definitely should try to get full custody of the children. If she wants visitation, it should definitely be supervised. This is not your fault, no matter what she says. Good luck!
Please keep leaving. You seem absolutely lovely. This man thinks he has you pinned to the wall and can finally reveal his evil. I worry for the kids.
Attempting to punish your partner is emotionally abusive.
Being in a relationship = you are on the same team. Loving someone means acting with their best interests at heart.
In a healthy relationship, when there is conflict you start from the position of the disagreement being about the issue, not about the person. Therefore, the discussion is about resolving the issue, and even if people get angry there is no name calling, no insults, and no comments or actions aimed at hurting the other person. The aim of talking is to find a resolution everyone is happy with, even if both people feel strongly and differently about what that should be.
The problem here isn't that you aren't making your partner food. The problem is that you think that your emotions, in this case anger, are a reason for deliberately causing another person pain. You made a plan to deliberately hurt someone you claim to love.
Typically, someone who thinks this is normal or OK hadn't had healthy relationships modelled to them and has been a victim of emotional abuse themselves. OP, please go to therapy and unpack why you think this is OK, because it's not. This is not how you take care of yourself or advocate for what you need, and it's not how you love other people.
Your mom has anxiety and is expressing it by being overly worrying and intrusive.
Time to turn the tables back on her. Perhaps you and sister can meet with her face on and tell her that she is being intrusive, disruptive and annoying. That while she excuses it with just worrying, it is affecting your life and you need her to seek some help with managing her anxiety in ways that do not impact you. I would also be blunt that it is suffocating and that if it continues, your natural tendency will be to eliminate her from social media and maybe only contact her once a week (or month) or something. I would be firm that you are not going to be a victim of her anxiety and she needs to work on getting it under reasonable control.
To be fair, she is kinda late in life to change personality wise. It is not too late in life for you however to modify how you deal with it. Placating an anxious person is a tiresome and circular task that never ends. They are ever coming up with yet another worry or problem.
“Be careful what you wish for”, there is a reason this is a thing.
Of course you're going to be depressed. You said yes but it is probably still effecting you almost as much as cheating, minus the lying and betrayal.
That being said, did you want to say yes, or did you do it just to appease the situation and get back home. If this is the case then you should have said no, and certainly can tell him no (more) now.
If you truly want them to continue then you will likely also need counseling as you may be putting off vibes you're not aware of.
Best life is the single life
It’s a naked subject. She may want that but not know how to do that. I mean, how do you even begin to talk about these things? Honestly I think only a professional would know. She may be bringing it up to you because she feels like you’re the only one she can talk to it about and keeping it to herself could be eating at her. Again, you aren’t the person to be picking up this emotional baggage, but I think there is a logical explanation behind her behavior.
Leaving in poverty sure will be fun for your poor kid…