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Date: October 24, 2022
No. Not unless your exclusive with that person.That isn’t the case here. OP said herself that they both mentioned that they weren’t currently having sex with anyone else, not that they wouldn’t in the future.
TikTok is not to blame for this his immature and disrespectful actions are the issue here. He doesn’t care about you and the blatant disrespect of seeing half nude girls while next you is seriously baffling! Don’t put up with it! Why haven’t you considered leaving him? Your life doesn’t have to be this way! He’s not the only fish out there. He either faces real consequences or his behavior will only get worse!
Probably the best advice I've seen so far in here.
You yourself admit that you're prone to overreacting, and you are overreacting in this instance.
Yes, you have the right to feel respected in your relationship, but dropping the big “I'll end things” bomb over this kind of conversation was over the top imo.
You acted very wounded over a pretty casual “you wouldn't like it” comment and then sulked, I would be annoyed too, and it's clear from his reaction that you hurt his feelings as well.
In addition to that, you seem to be projecting your own insecurities around food and ED's onto him and frankly you sound controlling when it comes to that issue. You say you let him do whatever he wants but you also say you “make sure he keeps a healthy relationship with food” (whatever that means)
So.. which is it?
With your sensitivity in mind I'm going to put this as gently as I can, but.. well to be “brutally honest”..
His familial culture of brutal honesty and coming from a thick-skinned family doesn't seem compatible with your oversensitivity/ tendency to be prone to emotional responses.
No one likes being told to shut up but if your knee jerk reaction to that is to threaten leaving him (holding your relationship as leverage over him, which is never a good move btw) you're not ready for the stresses of a long-term commitment to someone who doesn't have a problem with such phrases.
Neither of you sound very mature.
No male with his head screwed on dates someone with such an age disparity. This is not an attack on you in any way. This is simply a fact. The reason he wants to date someone younger is control and power.
He essentially has double the life experience you do. Why would he want to date someone who has that gap?
I'm 36 years old and I have acquaintances and training partners who are roughly your age. Even though I have known them for a long time and we have similar interests, the disparity of age is enough that we're just riding totally different waves. I could not imagine having to socially spend time with or negotiate life with a 19 year old.
Spend your 20's making the life mistakes you need to make with someone on the same journey.
If everything that you’re sharing is true, you’re not being dramatic or using your baby as a weapon.
You don’t need to announce it. Pull away and wait for it to be questioned then just be matter of fact.
Also, I’d plan to NOT tell anyone until you and your baby are home from the hospital. If you haven’t don’t tell anyone else the baby gender – they can be surprised. (Petty option: if your sister is due after you don’t announce you had your baby until after she announces she’s in labor ? just respond to the family with “oh yeah, this happened! Meet…”)
People won’t always agree with what’s best for your mental and emotional health a especially people benefiting or getting off from intentionally harming it. Do what’s best for you, unapologetically.