Any assets after marriage becomes joint assets though. He’s trying to protect the assets that he had before he gets married to you. What’s wrong wkth that? Sounds like you want some of them assets then? Lol ?
No one here knows what's going on in her head. Your best bet would be to talk to your girlfriend.
If I had to guess, since they were together for four years, marriage was probably discussed at some point. He probably wouldn't make that commitment to her and now that he's committed in that way to someone else, it made her feel like shit and like she wasn't good enough to marry. That doesn't mean she doesn't love you or that she still has feelings for him. Insecurities can be a real bitch.
But looking at your replies in here, it looks like you're hell bent on thinking she's still got a thing for her ex. As I said, no one here knows what's going on in her head. Only she does. So you can do one of two things. One: assume the worst, let your negative feelings over a guess stew, and break up with her. Two: talk to your girlfriend. Express your feelings calmly and figure out what's going on in a non-accusatory way. Best of luck to you.
Your dad has always been gross before you were born. He knows he’s a sick man and doesn’t care. Play the long game. Say nothing just be indifferent to him. When you alone time with his girlfriends just say that his last GF aged out at 25 and that he starts cheating again with someone younger including teens. Eventually he’ll come across a nutcase that will make him hate his life.
Me too! ? Poor OP you need some serious rest and recovery, physically AND mentally, you have been through a lot! Your partner needs to support you through the healing process, not sulk about not getting a BJ! How immature!
r/polyamory is a thriving community.
Also, you're assuming that divorce is the worst thing that could happen. Its 2023 divorce is not the behead-2-wives issue that it used to be.
So he abuses you and you make excuses for him. You can do so much better.
People don’t ever, ever change unless *they** want to.*
Any assets after marriage becomes joint assets though. He’s trying to protect the assets that he had before he gets married to you. What’s wrong wkth that? Sounds like you want some of them assets then? Lol ?
Do you have a therapist?
Shaming yourself for being a product of your experiences isn’t going to help anyone, especially you.
It's like we're all OP's best friends now.
No one here knows what's going on in her head. Your best bet would be to talk to your girlfriend.
If I had to guess, since they were together for four years, marriage was probably discussed at some point. He probably wouldn't make that commitment to her and now that he's committed in that way to someone else, it made her feel like shit and like she wasn't good enough to marry. That doesn't mean she doesn't love you or that she still has feelings for him. Insecurities can be a real bitch.
But looking at your replies in here, it looks like you're hell bent on thinking she's still got a thing for her ex. As I said, no one here knows what's going on in her head. Only she does. So you can do one of two things. One: assume the worst, let your negative feelings over a guess stew, and break up with her. Two: talk to your girlfriend. Express your feelings calmly and figure out what's going on in a non-accusatory way. Best of luck to you.
Your dad has always been gross before you were born. He knows he’s a sick man and doesn’t care. Play the long game. Say nothing just be indifferent to him. When you alone time with his girlfriends just say that his last GF aged out at 25 and that he starts cheating again with someone younger including teens. Eventually he’ll come across a nutcase that will make him hate his life.
This made me physically recoil.
Me too! ? Poor OP you need some serious rest and recovery, physically AND mentally, you have been through a lot! Your partner needs to support you through the healing process, not sulk about not getting a BJ! How immature!
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