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Date: October 9, 2022
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Is it possible that the prospect of moving is unsettling? It's hard to live! together in a house that's owned by one partner if the financial arrangements and the power dynamics haven't been hashed out and settled.
Financial – who's going to pay for what? And is it fair to both the owner and the tenant? And from a power perspective, it can be hard because while the house can belong to one person, it still should be a home that you're sharing together – so near term decisions should be mutual.
Note that I'm not saying that your boyfriend should somehow get half a house, but rather that the dynamics should be addressed in a way that's fair to both of you.
Otherwise – with the reservations that you already have – moving together into your house probably isn't such a great idea.
So your gf has some toxic ideas that taking care of yourself and putting a bit of moisturiser on is gay?
So what has changed, how is being bothered made a difference to your relationship?
Beliefs are really naked to change and if she doesn't know you are a joker with a dry and dark sense of humour by now, then does she really know you well enough to marry you?
People can believe all sorts of crap, if they are not willing to listen to reason and discuss that this was a joke then she may not be right for you, perhaps she doesn't have enough sense of humour to appreciate you.
Western European couple here – I would most definitely not pay anything „back“. Time to get a joint bank account and separate savings accounts! You’re married, he has to know that means you’re responsible for one another, financially and otherwise. For better or for worse. Imagine you get really sick, or pregnant, is he going to send you monthly bills for half of your joint expenses? Plus, you moved to a whole another country for him, that’s something you can’t even put a price on (although maybe you should, to finally make him see he’s being ridiculous). He should have expected it would take some time to adjust. Out of curiosity, do you have a prenup/marriage contract?
People don’t change, they get better at managing their behavior. She sent you proof. Leave.
I don't know if you'll read this, but please, for the sake of your own mental health, leave her. You said it yourself, you're now more like roommates instead of partners – given that this is the case due to this woman now acting so stone cold and your “girlfriend's” reaction to your story beforehand, she only wanted to play savior. Yet once she realized it was too much for her to handle, her little dream bubble burst and thus, she decided if she couldn't help you, no one could – and she turned her back on you.
OP, I can relate a little, to be honest. I've had friends back stab me horribly before, yet one of those back stabbers was the worst to me. I still remember what she did almost a decade ago. This happened in fifth grade, I've since graduated (naturally). I was never a popular kid at school, and once I got this girl as a friend in fourth grade, I confided in her about that one day. She used this information a year later to make my life a living hell by turning all of my classmates against me, bullying the shit out of me and stealing my best friends. I was all alone for around two years. You know I celebrated once she had to redo the year and as such wasn't in my year anymore. Yet even now, when I do happen to spot her somewhere, I get all tensed up one minute to the next. And even now, where I'm just thinking about her, I feel physically sick.
In my case, it was just a so-called friend. In your case, it's a so-called significant other. A little difference is there but the gist of it is: both are horrible people. And it's best to cut ties with horrible people, so they don't brand your life forever. Give it time, OP. Let time heal the wounds of this disgusting woman who ever dared to call herself your girlfriend – she doesn't deserve that title, not even a little bit. You deserve so so much better. Please never forget that. The right person will be there for you no matter what, and they will never leave. I have faith in you. ❤️
How you deal is tell him to leave,
Your grieving and he pulls this shit,
It's probably been going on for a while and he probably does more than just chat
Don't let him minimise it or rug sweep,
And unless he faces consequences I.e leaving the house he will carrying on doing it as he will see you don't respect yourself
I’d say ping him in 4 months, the baby being 2 months old will give a better feel for whether he’s trying to be an involved parent (I also don’t want kids and I’d be so put off by him not being involved) and how having a child is impacting his life and by extension any relationship they would have.
In a month his ex is still going to be pregnant and doing all the work on this. His role is non-existent so far, so it would easy for OP to message him in a month and go back to pretending nothing will change and she won’t be impacted by his having a child.
then why do i feel so bad and like i've made a bad choice? he had asked me to be more patient and accommodating. i said i had been and he said he wouldn't “bother me” anymore…
He does way more for you… like not paying rent?