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I wouldn’t care cause I’m not insecure and would trust my boyfriend to be loyal. He also repeatedly said that he felt any girl who asked their boyfriends to block people were immature and insecure.
Thanks for responding. I forgot I posted this since no one left a comment lol.
She actually said during the breakup that she “lost the spark”. Similar to what you stated, my biggest worry right now is getting back together and then she shuts down again because we’re too comfortable.
I think I started to win her back by being sort of distant and being very assertive/confident on our recent dates and let the sparks fly. But obviously that sort of dynamic isn’t sustainable in a LTR. It’s so frustrating because I was her first actual boyfriend and I think maybe she thinks you’re supposed to have sparks 24/7 in a LTR which is impossible of course. I really hope I’m wrong in that assessment but it made the breakup even tougher because I felt like she was sabotaging us even when things were seemingly so good (and still are good).
And I actually did end up getting her something for $20. It’s a Christmas gift and not an “anniversary” gift. It’s something I know she likes and she’ll definitely appreciate the thought. I messed up badly during our relationship by not getting her a birthday present (I spent a ton of money on multiple dinners and thought that was enough). I rarely got her gifts and it’s something I regret (not even because of the breakup, but because I felt like I wasn’t putting forward enough effort in the relationship in hindsight).
I’m hoping we get back together but I think we are on the same page about having a serious conversation about changes that need to be made. I don’t know what those changes would be from her perspective but that’s a conversation that I’m looking forward to if we get to that point because obviously there was some sort of breakdown in order for her to become unattracted to me.
she is not in the right stage of her recovery to be in a healthy relationship. you need to get out; fast. she is emotionally manipulating and gaslighting you to stay but please don't. she is still very much playing a game and treating you as a sacrificial piece. get out while you can.
How do you go from “dog licks babies” to “dog is a physical threat to children”? Or “She says the dog isn't my problem and I'll leave him out in the cold” to “the dog is an untamed menace”?
That's great but not SUPER helpful to those of us in our 40s who already got HPV like 20 years ago. You know? All I can say is that if you're a young person, go get the vaccine! If you're a parent (I am), get your kids vaccinated (I did!). I think they will start the vaccine as young as 9 if you ask, & you can just get it out of the way & your kid will never have to worry about it.
He’ll start of small, getting angry over little things like this, until he breaks you and you don’t feel it’s worth fighting over.
Then his jokes will get meaner, he will break your confidence, break you.
Jokes will turn into mental abuse.
Might even turn into physical abuse next.
Don’t stay, he’s showing you who he really is. The person that you were attracted to at the start was an act and him being on his best behaviour until he trapped you. He will never be that man again.
A pregnancy test, but also – he should get checked! Sudden changes can be cancer, like… don’t fuck around with this cause it’s embarrassing, he could have an issue too. People can also be smelling something phantom because of a neurological condition, but if you’ve confirmed with others it stinks…
Is there a big age gap between young wife and her husband? I ask because her hot/cold behavior reads to me like a woman who isn’t actually into swinging but does it because her spouse likes it. I’ve seen it a LOT in age gap relationships, especially if there is any D/s at play. You describe her as naive and it may be that she got into this thinking it was what she wanted but as she’s gotten older she’s realizing she actually doesn’t.
Anyway. All that said—your husband is way out of line. My husband and I have been together for 22 years, and I would have his dick if he tried this sort of nonsense. Just as he would be ultra disappointed in me and pull the dad face if he saw me getting drunk and handsy with someone.
He may not have technically cheated, but he attempted. That’s why you feel gross and upset. You’re stuck wondering how far he would have gone if you hadn’t been there which is like emotional torture.
If you stay—counseling for sure. And don’t see this couple anymore. Ever. Draw a line and stick to it.
Hope you can be with her and then cheated as well with everyone in your family. Even with your grandma. I’m sorry for the husband who is forgiving her that obviously is not a trustworthy woman. You deserve all this. I’m sorry for your next gf too.
I wouldn’t care cause I’m not insecure and would trust my boyfriend to be loyal. He also repeatedly said that he felt any girl who asked their boyfriends to block people were immature and insecure.
Thanks for responding. I forgot I posted this since no one left a comment lol.
She actually said during the breakup that she “lost the spark”. Similar to what you stated, my biggest worry right now is getting back together and then she shuts down again because we’re too comfortable.
I think I started to win her back by being sort of distant and being very assertive/confident on our recent dates and let the sparks fly. But obviously that sort of dynamic isn’t sustainable in a LTR. It’s so frustrating because I was her first actual boyfriend and I think maybe she thinks you’re supposed to have sparks 24/7 in a LTR which is impossible of course. I really hope I’m wrong in that assessment but it made the breakup even tougher because I felt like she was sabotaging us even when things were seemingly so good (and still are good).
And I actually did end up getting her something for $20. It’s a Christmas gift and not an “anniversary” gift. It’s something I know she likes and she’ll definitely appreciate the thought. I messed up badly during our relationship by not getting her a birthday present (I spent a ton of money on multiple dinners and thought that was enough). I rarely got her gifts and it’s something I regret (not even because of the breakup, but because I felt like I wasn’t putting forward enough effort in the relationship in hindsight).
I’m hoping we get back together but I think we are on the same page about having a serious conversation about changes that need to be made. I don’t know what those changes would be from her perspective but that’s a conversation that I’m looking forward to if we get to that point because obviously there was some sort of breakdown in order for her to become unattracted to me.
she is not in the right stage of her recovery to be in a healthy relationship. you need to get out; fast. she is emotionally manipulating and gaslighting you to stay but please don't. she is still very much playing a game and treating you as a sacrificial piece. get out while you can.
Uhh ya that is cheating. ?
How do you go from “dog licks babies” to “dog is a physical threat to children”? Or “She says the dog isn't my problem and I'll leave him out in the cold” to “the dog is an untamed menace”?
Doesn't help anything prior to divorce.
Getting all that means he has to do it before divorce forces it.
That's great but not SUPER helpful to those of us in our 40s who already got HPV like 20 years ago. You know? All I can say is that if you're a young person, go get the vaccine! If you're a parent (I am), get your kids vaccinated (I did!). I think they will start the vaccine as young as 9 if you ask, & you can just get it out of the way & your kid will never have to worry about it.
This is abuse.
He’ll start of small, getting angry over little things like this, until he breaks you and you don’t feel it’s worth fighting over.
Then his jokes will get meaner, he will break your confidence, break you.
Jokes will turn into mental abuse.
Might even turn into physical abuse next.
Don’t stay, he’s showing you who he really is. The person that you were attracted to at the start was an act and him being on his best behaviour until he trapped you. He will never be that man again.
A pregnancy test, but also – he should get checked! Sudden changes can be cancer, like… don’t fuck around with this cause it’s embarrassing, he could have an issue too. People can also be smelling something phantom because of a neurological condition, but if you’ve confirmed with others it stinks…
You can't let cheating and lying go, or it'll keep happening.
Is there a big age gap between young wife and her husband? I ask because her hot/cold behavior reads to me like a woman who isn’t actually into swinging but does it because her spouse likes it. I’ve seen it a LOT in age gap relationships, especially if there is any D/s at play. You describe her as naive and it may be that she got into this thinking it was what she wanted but as she’s gotten older she’s realizing she actually doesn’t.
Anyway. All that said—your husband is way out of line. My husband and I have been together for 22 years, and I would have his dick if he tried this sort of nonsense. Just as he would be ultra disappointed in me and pull the dad face if he saw me getting drunk and handsy with someone.
He may not have technically cheated, but he attempted. That’s why you feel gross and upset. You’re stuck wondering how far he would have gone if you hadn’t been there which is like emotional torture.
If you stay—counseling for sure. And don’t see this couple anymore. Ever. Draw a line and stick to it.
The fact that he said he doesn’t love you would make me immediately leave. You can’t just say that and then take it back. You should end it.
Hope you can be with her and then cheated as well with everyone in your family. Even with your grandma. I’m sorry for the husband who is forgiving her that obviously is not a trustworthy woman. You deserve all this. I’m sorry for your next gf too.