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Date: October 23, 2022
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Just take a step back, accept and say nothing.
The fact that they left you on read is a sign of immaturity. Just be the bigger person.
I was in a friendship group, and sadly, went completely deaf suddenly. Guess who wasn’t invited/informed about a wedding? Found out through photographs on Facebook.
Guess who slowly removed herself from that friendship group but remained polite and friendly? Me.
Because I wasn’t rude and let it go, that friendship group is forever mortified and on the back foot when I see/bump into them.
Also, because I’m a known volunteer and supporter of events in our area (thank you cochlear implant), it’s obvious that I’m not with that group anymore and with new groups.
It stings a bit sometimes but I’m happier with my new friends etc. who respect me and don’t show that level of immaturity.
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Are you familiar with attachment theory? If not, I would advise you to read up on it. You might be the anxiously attached type.
Why is it not ok to bring up an issue farther on into the relationship? You don’t always know what issues are going to arise later. At the beginning of the relationship you could have had a long discussion on something, only later to find out that you are not on the same page. I’m not saying they should “stop because it makes them feel bad” that’s dumbing it’s down. I’m saying you should take how your partner feels into consideration, and if you don’t want to change on an aspect that is big to the other person, then you aren’t right for eachother. For example, my partner smoked weed when we got together, I knew that, and I didn’t care because it wasn’t on an everyday bases, we talked about boundaries from the beginning. Later on on the relationship he started smoking much more frequently, which made me uncomfortable and uneasy. I voiced how I felt to him, I did NOT tell him to stop smoking. He valued my feelings and opinions and made the conscious decision by himself, to stop smoking as much. It is not controlling to have feelings and opinions on things and wanting a partner to value those. If you cannot value those feelings then be with a person who doesn’t share those opinions. Yes communication is a huge part of it. You cannot expect change without communication. But problems can arise about things you have already communicated on. Something that you deem as “normal” is not normal to someone else, and it doesn’t have to be. You don’t have to settle, you don’t have to accept. After you have communicated to someone how you feel and they go out of their way not to take your feelings into consideration they are not for you. They can decide not to listen, and you can also decide that you don’t want to be in a relationship with someone that doesn’t have the same opinions as you
and its toxic too cuz my ex is just there in school. he was … he recently graduated
you’ve already given her enough time and chances to change. time to rehome the dog before more damage is done
Because if one side is doing all the yelling and the other is just quietly crying, the crier wants the yeller to stop. They do NOT want to prolong the fight.
Going by her words: she knew he was angry. Instead of letting him walk away, as requested, she chose to continue. Now he wants a divorce, which means permanently removing himself from the unpleasantness. That's not reading to me like he's abusive and she's a victim of his temper since abusers don't want divorces; they want to keep their victims under control.
Sounds to me that this is just a man who's fed up (for whatever reasons) and he's done with the relationship.
I have nothing against OP. I just don't like when people try to portray themselves as absolute victims when she's given more than enough hints she was giving as she good as she got in these arguments.
Ugh, he sounds exhausting. I would take a break from this “relationship” to think about what you really want.
Of course you expect him to give up his last name because you’re so disgusted that women usually do it yet combining the two is out of the question.
You act as though this is some honourable thing, it’s not it’s just hypocrisy
Honestly, if you knew all about it (that he had a gf) you’re in on it and can’t be mad at him.
The two of you sound like a terrible match and there are so many red flags in this post waving in every direction.
You should leave him, and if he said “go for it” it’s not cheating.
Judging from what you wrote, there is no way to salvage this relationship. Once he put a gun to your head, you know things are just going to escalate. He’s not going to stop there.