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I understand better than you think. I have suffered GAD with a hyper rejection element since I was a child. I am explaining to you the cognitive training required to get through this.
You start by rationalising. Your emotions are a storm, and that’s okay. Begin with what your brain can tell you, because you can rely on your brain. You can’t rely on your emotions.
Start with the rationalisation, and sit with the emotions. Over time, your emotions will begin to be tamed by your rationalisations.
Not at all accurate. Partner and I have a good 20 hoodies, my 20 or so work dresses, and my whole larp costuming crammed into a small walk in closet. It's fine. You hang them up, you squish them down and keep going
We each have an ideal person in mind and we strive to meet that ideal but at times it's impossible or too far. Accepting that you can't reach that ideal but loving yourself is part of growth and it's key to realize that early. Accept what your bf says but also see where you can grow not to appease your bf but to love yourself. The physical body isn't the only thing that makes up a person don't belittle yourself by focusing only on the body. Your bf must love your personality much more than anything else.
You did make a mistake with the new person. I don't know if leaving the old situation was a mistake because if you were really invested it wouldn't have happened. He would definitely be making a mistake taking you back now, though.
I'm not going to slam you if you met someone, realized you were falling, and broke up before pursuing this other person. Feelings happen, and the responsible thing is to break up rather than stay in your relationship and cheat physically or emotionally.
But…your partner can't trust you won't do that again. And if there's no trust, then the relationship is doomed. At your age, if after four years you're not sure enough to not let someone you just met turn your head, you're not in it for the long haul, and he now knows that. Don't use his residual feelings for you to reel him back into a situation with someone who realistically is just going to hurt him. If you actually care about his wellbeing, and not just him as an object to give you comfort, then phase out of his life quickly so he can move on.
he's now so aggressive that I've had to physically push him away or pull his hands away from certain areas multiple times
What you're describing here is sexual coercion at best, and many people would already consider it sexual assault. Anytime someone does not respect the word “no” and you need to physically remove their hands from your body, what they're doing has ceased to be consensual. “No” or “stop” should be enough. If it is not enough, that means he doesn't respect your consent, and that's exactly the kind of person who will sexually assault you.
She is right, you need to fly the nest and start making in this world by yourself. Your parents will not be there always to help you. Plus, no gf will put up with you living at home if the relationship gets exclusive.
I spend a lot of time over on r/justnomil. Maybe go over there and read how men who don’t protect their wives and children against their families are perceived. It’s not pretty. Because you are going to be a father, your family IS NOT your parents and sibling. It’s your girlfriend and kid. The family you were born in is now demoted to extended family.
If they aren’t welcoming to your girlfriend, you’re going to have to put some serious distance between you and them. If they don’t treat your girlfriend as one of their own, they will be forced to choose between your ex girlfriend and their grandchild. Don’t say you haven’t been warned when they choose your ex. Happens more often than you’d expect.
I understand better than you think. I have suffered GAD with a hyper rejection element since I was a child. I am explaining to you the cognitive training required to get through this.
You start by rationalising. Your emotions are a storm, and that’s okay. Begin with what your brain can tell you, because you can rely on your brain. You can’t rely on your emotions.
Start with the rationalisation, and sit with the emotions. Over time, your emotions will begin to be tamed by your rationalisations.
Not at all accurate. Partner and I have a good 20 hoodies, my 20 or so work dresses, and my whole larp costuming crammed into a small walk in closet. It's fine. You hang them up, you squish them down and keep going
We each have an ideal person in mind and we strive to meet that ideal but at times it's impossible or too far. Accepting that you can't reach that ideal but loving yourself is part of growth and it's key to realize that early. Accept what your bf says but also see where you can grow not to appease your bf but to love yourself. The physical body isn't the only thing that makes up a person don't belittle yourself by focusing only on the body. Your bf must love your personality much more than anything else.
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Yes, she has been really nice but i also feel a bit embarrassed over the whole situation. I might still text her later
You did make a mistake with the new person. I don't know if leaving the old situation was a mistake because if you were really invested it wouldn't have happened. He would definitely be making a mistake taking you back now, though.
I'm not going to slam you if you met someone, realized you were falling, and broke up before pursuing this other person. Feelings happen, and the responsible thing is to break up rather than stay in your relationship and cheat physically or emotionally.
But…your partner can't trust you won't do that again. And if there's no trust, then the relationship is doomed. At your age, if after four years you're not sure enough to not let someone you just met turn your head, you're not in it for the long haul, and he now knows that. Don't use his residual feelings for you to reel him back into a situation with someone who realistically is just going to hurt him. If you actually care about his wellbeing, and not just him as an object to give you comfort, then phase out of his life quickly so he can move on.
he's now so aggressive that I've had to physically push him away or pull his hands away from certain areas multiple times
What you're describing here is sexual coercion at best, and many people would already consider it sexual assault. Anytime someone does not respect the word “no” and you need to physically remove their hands from your body, what they're doing has ceased to be consensual. “No” or “stop” should be enough. If it is not enough, that means he doesn't respect your consent, and that's exactly the kind of person who will sexually assault you.
She is right, you need to fly the nest and start making in this world by yourself. Your parents will not be there always to help you. Plus, no gf will put up with you living at home if the relationship gets exclusive.
Go watch some porn and jerk off to clear your head
If that’s the case then it’s probably due to a lack of experience being in a relationship. Have you talked with him about it?
I spend a lot of time over on r/justnomil. Maybe go over there and read how men who don’t protect their wives and children against their families are perceived. It’s not pretty. Because you are going to be a father, your family IS NOT your parents and sibling. It’s your girlfriend and kid. The family you were born in is now demoted to extended family.
If they aren’t welcoming to your girlfriend, you’re going to have to put some serious distance between you and them. If they don’t treat your girlfriend as one of their own, they will be forced to choose between your ex girlfriend and their grandchild. Don’t say you haven’t been warned when they choose your ex. Happens more often than you’d expect.