We had a bit of a heart to heart through text about 2 months ago and I eventually told him if he’s not going to support me or be around for me then he can’t expect me to be when he gets older and I think that may have been the rude awakening he needed.
I know it's hard but you have to be honest. If you don't want to talk to him in person, don't. Call him or text him. You won't be able to avoid the confrontation or uncomfortable conversation. Tell your friends and family and just bite the bullet.
Put a ring on it.
LMMFAO!! sounds like a body count to me. Are you sure he's your BF? Or FWB?
I personally OP, would move on. Your a ride or die girl. Women like you are rare. You deserve so much more. Truth.
Peace
We had a bit of a heart to heart through text about 2 months ago and I eventually told him if he’s not going to support me or be around for me then he can’t expect me to be when he gets older and I think that may have been the rude awakening he needed.
Let her do her own thing and you do your own thing for a while. Maybe couples counseling would be beneficial.
I know it's hard but you have to be honest. If you don't want to talk to him in person, don't. Call him or text him. You won't be able to avoid the confrontation or uncomfortable conversation. Tell your friends and family and just bite the bullet.