The reason why you are unreasonably upset is because you want children and hope to have at least one child in your future family. Maybe biological, maybe adopted or fostered.
Have this chat with your wife and see whether she is compatible with your ambitions. She most likely never wanted to be pregnant or planned to have any biological children. But she may be open to fostering or even adoption.
I’m sorry you’re in this situation. By bringing it up with her therapist, it sounds like this is something she’s aware is a problem and that she’s working on overcoming it.
It’s absolutely not your fault she feels this way. I think it’s probably best to continue to respect her boundaries and be polite to prove that you’re worth trusting. However, don’t let her feelings make you afraid to communicate your own boundaries when needed. Keep reminding yourself that you’re allowed to exist in that space, it’s her responsibility to overcome that trauma.
Thanks for this. I will try to stop talking to him for a while. It's just going to be extremely nude because he's my only guy friend that I have and we've known each other for so long.
I’m a competitive athlete so I get my levels checked somewhat regularly, nothing strange there. The only thing I was low on previously was ironically Vitamin D, but I take a supplement and have been prescribed “yard time” I shit you not.
I’ve thought about maybe going and doing the p-shot because it apparently makes it much more sensitive and therefore should be easier to get there. Would also probably give me a minor boost performance-wise lol
Not waiting your partners to go through your phone is not secrecy..what if a good friend entrusts me with a secret and my gf happens to see that?
You sound selfish. You’re getting an ego boost off of this. Leave both of them alone.
The reason why you are unreasonably upset is because you want children and hope to have at least one child in your future family. Maybe biological, maybe adopted or fostered.
Have this chat with your wife and see whether she is compatible with your ambitions. She most likely never wanted to be pregnant or planned to have any biological children. But she may be open to fostering or even adoption.
Good luck!
I’m sorry you’re in this situation. By bringing it up with her therapist, it sounds like this is something she’s aware is a problem and that she’s working on overcoming it.
It’s absolutely not your fault she feels this way. I think it’s probably best to continue to respect her boundaries and be polite to prove that you’re worth trusting. However, don’t let her feelings make you afraid to communicate your own boundaries when needed. Keep reminding yourself that you’re allowed to exist in that space, it’s her responsibility to overcome that trauma.
Thanks for this. I will try to stop talking to him for a while. It's just going to be extremely nude because he's my only guy friend that I have and we've known each other for so long.
I’m glad you’re realizing it now babes because that is some shitty behavior that you should’ve never settled for
Men get told their feelings are valid about this topic all the time.
I’m a competitive athlete so I get my levels checked somewhat regularly, nothing strange there. The only thing I was low on previously was ironically Vitamin D, but I take a supplement and have been prescribed “yard time” I shit you not.
I’ve thought about maybe going and doing the p-shot because it apparently makes it much more sensitive and therefore should be easier to get there. Would also probably give me a minor boost performance-wise lol