I also was not discrediting anyone. I just simply was pointing out the fact he said there was no way anyone could know someone is the one in that short amount of time.
I completely understand that I got a unicorn as they say. It is rare anymore for things to happen like my relationship. And that I am a rare lucky one. But it does happen.
You’re marriage will fail I mean y’all can still be married but the romantic part will die out and he will eventually cheat on you. You need to do the work not just him and vice versa he needs to do work too. A marriage is about communication not “he hurt my feelings we went to bed” that won’t solve nothing.
Yes most of us have memories of the past that still coming up to the mind or in dreams … it takes long times to get over it , the more you interact and focus on your current relationship the more you forget it .
You didn't mess up. He's mad that he can't make jokes that demean you.
He's in the wrong here. He commented that it looked like you're a cheater and you provided a sure way to prove it wrong. He's mad that he doesn't get to insult your integrity anymore. He's refusing to take the test because it would prove him wrong. He wants to insult you with no repercussions.
He has to come clean on what his issue is. I hate to bring it up, but sometimes when people cheat they acuse their partner of doing it instead as a cover.
He’s 22. She told him she’s has relationships before. She did NOT tell him that she’s never had sex, and while she doesn’t have to, she has to deal with the consequences of withholding information, which is that he’s making a decision based on her apparent lack of interest, it’s not “manipulative” to say you’re breaking up if a basic relationship need isn’t being met. In fact, of all the possible choices it’s the most appropriate (as opposed to just dumping her or cheating on her).
Mid 20s guy going after a teenager tale as old as time nuff said.
Wow sorry that happened to you,
I also was not discrediting anyone. I just simply was pointing out the fact he said there was no way anyone could know someone is the one in that short amount of time.
I completely understand that I got a unicorn as they say. It is rare anymore for things to happen like my relationship. And that I am a rare lucky one. But it does happen.
That was my point is all.
Also glad you got away and found someone better.
I’ve already done that, I guess it’s in her hands though I can’t get it out of my mind
You’re marriage will fail I mean y’all can still be married but the romantic part will die out and he will eventually cheat on you. You need to do the work not just him and vice versa he needs to do work too. A marriage is about communication not “he hurt my feelings we went to bed” that won’t solve nothing.
Yes most of us have memories of the past that still coming up to the mind or in dreams … it takes long times to get over it , the more you interact and focus on your current relationship the more you forget it .
Is he still on the dating app? If he is end it,he found someone more easy.
You didn't mess up. He's mad that he can't make jokes that demean you.
He's in the wrong here. He commented that it looked like you're a cheater and you provided a sure way to prove it wrong. He's mad that he doesn't get to insult your integrity anymore. He's refusing to take the test because it would prove him wrong. He wants to insult you with no repercussions.
He has to come clean on what his issue is. I hate to bring it up, but sometimes when people cheat they acuse their partner of doing it instead as a cover.
Tiny chance OP aged her up 15 years or so cause this is weird immature shit.
He’s 22. She told him she’s has relationships before. She did NOT tell him that she’s never had sex, and while she doesn’t have to, she has to deal with the consequences of withholding information, which is that he’s making a decision based on her apparent lack of interest, it’s not “manipulative” to say you’re breaking up if a basic relationship need isn’t being met. In fact, of all the possible choices it’s the most appropriate (as opposed to just dumping her or cheating on her).
hmm no offense at all but this isn’t very comforting. You dated a 19 yo at 25, I personally find that a bit weird