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This is a bit of a stretch.. and is certainly is not the case considering he is fine with waiting to have sex with me and he’s more than supportive and a cheerleader for me in every other area (career, family, mental health, etc.). I think there is a difference between maintaining friendships and crossing boundaries within those friendships that might make your partner uncomfortable.
yeah agree seems like it!
Posts like this make me so grateful I am not in my 20s anymore. Like… when does telling your boyfriend you don’t want him to fuck other people make a woman “crazy” or “insecure”?
Excellent point. I also wonder what changed? How do you go from covered to uncovered nipples? I guess people do change and evolve. It’s possible she is making a statement, or her style evolved, or as a way to deal with the abusivo ex. But it’s also possible that she’s doing it for attention. I think every one understands that women’s nipples are seen as way more sexual than mens. That’s just a western societal truth. She definitely has seen the guys staring at her breasts and all the extra sexual attention she is getting. Maybe she likes it? I know I would. So OP…. Which one is it?
Side little story… I knew a women that was a bit overweight and had low self esteem. She worked really very hot, lost the weight, became more confident, etc. Boom nipples came out. In her case it was definitely about attention. We had conversations were she told me how much she loved being looked at as a sex object. Loved all the kale attention. After a year or so she went back to covering them up. More power to her. She worked on that body and showed it off.
Ew. He lied. What are you still doing with this guy?
He's always with people. Gym, breakfast, lessons, lunch, studying in the library, dinner.
Exactly. And the issue with this is because of the long distance, you aren't a part of this. You aren't studying with him, going to lunch with him, etc. You didn't see the cute cat being rescued from the tree, you didn't see the waiter drop the tray (examples). You can tell each other these things, but a second hand story is never the same as experiencing together. Those things are what creates and keeps a bond. That's why there's a compromise when you each want to do something different on a date – the time together is what makes it count, otherwise you'd each just go do something different and tell each other about it at the end.
Now, even flirting is awkward cause either me or him won't feel like it.
This sounds like what I mentioned before – growing apart. When you're close to someone, that comes naturally. Going through the motions just makes it feel empty and meaningless.
You'd reject someone who flirts with you because you have a girlfriend, but you won't even make your girlfriend feel like she's your girlfriend because of the distance?
If he isn't entertaining other girls, then I doubt it's on purpose. In all likelihood, he's feeling the same distance you are describing.
My suggestion would be to schedule a time, where he agrees to be free and alone so that you two can talk about this. Ask him how the distance is making him feel about the relationship, tell him how it is making you feel, discuss whether or not you both feel like you want to continue trying to make it work and if you decide you do, what each of you can do to make the other feel more connected. You can schedule time where you are both free and able to concentrate on other, share screens and watch a movie, play a game, etc.
it's her house. he's not on the deed and doesn't pay for bills or upkeep on it. he has no stake in it.
Thank you so much!
Yeah that’s red flags all around. Also you got engaged barely a year in, so you probably doing really know her and she just showed you who she really was. It’s pretty easy to keep a facade up for a year. You only know “good impression” her. When someone tells you who they are, believe them
You’re deranged ? what if she breaks your heart? There’s a power dynamic now where you could leverage her CAREER. Please think with a higher IQ than a first grader. Do most of your therapy problems stem from dick > brain issues?
My partner is highly educated, and I'm… Not. It's only a problem if you let it be. For instance, my boyfriend knows that he rather have a romantic partner who is more his particular match on the intangible stuff (sexuality, affection, friendship, respect) than have the partner that everybody expects him to. Yes, some of his professional acquaintances are horrified by even 10% of our story, but he only cares that our relationship works between us. His close friends understand a bit better than the more distant ones, because he has more open-minded childhood friends that know that he is his own, very unique person.
If your relationship was loving and functional before your friends started telling you that you should be miserable, then you can try sitting down and determining what you most value within a relationship. You may find that you are okay being the breadwinner, but, if you are not, that's okay, too.
No, that’s not it either. In her country, the woman graduated what is equivalent to junior college in USA. OP just did not know the junior college term and kept saying high school.
I’m also worried about when we engage in consensual things now. Even if she consents, in her head she may not want to and by consenting but not wanting to do anything, would make her feel like I’m forcing her into something she doesn’t want to do. I don’t want to blur the lines between myself and abusive past/partner.
At this point I feel like abstaining from anything until she gets some help. Any thoughts on that?
If he can't do a simple chore, he doesn't get fed. Period.
Why don't you pour your own ketchup?
I mean he doesn't act like he doesn't know how to do it. Ans he doesn't throw a fit about doing it either
It really doesn’t matter. What’s important is that you realize that nothing’s going to happen with him and you need to let go.
Don’t be her friend, don’t wait around for her. She’s keeping you in the loop in case she can’t find somebody better than you.
Relationships aren’t easy. They require a lot of work, and she’s not willing to put in that work for you. She’s hoping to find somebody that she thinks that work is worth. Don’t let her keep you around as a second option.
Let me tell you a story. My daughter had an excellent credit rating. She bought her first home, as a single parent, when she was 21. Then she met the man who would become her son's father. He had a newer vehicle when she met him, about 6 months in it disappeared. It had been repoed. He bought a beater to get to and from work. He had no credit cards, because of his credit. He was always asking her to put things on her cards, and would pay her back. Eventually they were living together and less and less would be paid back. She got pregnant by accident. Once she wasn't working things got bad. She would have to put essentials on her card, because he would spend all his money. By the time she left her credit was destroyed and she came close to losing her house over taxes. It took several years to rebuild her credit, and she never got back the money she was owed. Don't make my daughter's mistake.
Setting aside the obvious:
Stop talking to this using, coercive fucking clown who got you pregnant. You have bigger problems.
You need a doctor, GYNO, Planned Parenthood immediately. It's too late for Plan B, so you need to figure out viable options. When I say immediately I mean IMMEDIATELY. Your pregnancy and the time to terminate it is limited, and that decision should be the very first thing on your list.
After that, then sort out anything else, through therapy or whatever works for you. In my opinion, you made a terrible decision to let him fuck you without a condom. Condoms don't fit him (you believed that bullshit?) then he can orgasm in his fist. He didn't ask permission to orgasm in you? Did you tell him not to to begin with? Did you discuss anything having to do with 'let's not make a baby'?
And now he's laughing about it all?
Do what you need to do with this pregnancy, do it NOW. Expect nothing from him, don't even tell him. Learn the important lessons this life-changing mistake is trying to teach. Take care of yourself first and foremost.
He made a joke about raping. Raping you. And then he said it wouldn't be rape.
Run, my girl, run.
This is a good point, bacterial transfer is a huge risk too.