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Date: October 23, 2022
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She's on her way out love. She's already emotionally checked out or she wouldn't have reacted defensively. She appears to be in a relationship with this other fellow and she's investing in it, obviously. She's willing to sacrifice your feelings in order to validate her own. That is not a partnership. Speaking from experience, you need to square away custody of your daughter and make sure you're legally sound in every way. She seems capable of not only blindsiding you but also acting over aggressively to achieve her goals. She will hurt you because she can. She's not considering you in any decisions she makes unless it involves getting caught in whatever nefarious deeds in which she's involved. You need to accept that this is happening, and that there is probably nothing you can say or do to rectify your position because she's already decided that you're out. She no longer regards you as an important figure, not only in her life, but she's also minimizing your importance in your daughter's life by being dismissive of not only your presence but also your position as father of your child. She's speaking for her daughter because she feels entitled to do so. She's already determined that the child you share is her child alone and that she and only she can or will make decisions on her behalf. You need to nip this in the bud before you lose whatever power you have left. Her mind is set. The only reason she hasn't said it outright is because she's still dependent upon you for something or many things. Does she work, what ground does she have to stand on without you?? If I were you, I'd begin to enact whatever custody maneuvers are needed to insure your parental rights and prepare for separation. You need her out of your life as soon as possible. She is exhibiting toxic behavior. You will want to react to this however, you must do your best to be a father first. No matter how she treats you, you must never take your frustrations out on the child. She is an innocent, and under the influence of her mother. You must stop and consider your steps consciously with your daughter's welfare in mind. Be smarter than she is. In the end, I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I wish you and your daughter the best. Take care.
Tell her you don't have a “type”. You love her for who she is. If she is insistent on a “type” tell her your “type” is women.
Don't tell her specifics like body type, hair color, etc.
He can love you and still disrespect you all at the same time. Better to be the a**h*le for a day or a month, then let this eat away at you.
You could always snoop but I warn you, it will hurt more than him just not letting you see his phone.
I should have mentioned he picked me back up not long after. He took me there because he didn’t want me at his house. I never asked him to take me, and I feel like an idiot agreeing to go back. I wasn’t thinking straight. I have some huge dependency issues that I realise now that I have. He’s going to work tomorrow and I work from home on Mondays, so I am planning to leave tomorrow while he’s at work
Can you give some examples of these lies and embellishments?
Break up with him immediately. Don't go near ANY drink around him, not water, not booze, nothing, who knows what he could put in it. Report this to the police or whoever you can. Your relationship is not healthy by any stretch of the imagination. This is not safe. He is not safe. You are not safe to be around him. Leave and never ever talk to him again.
What a rude thing to say, true or not.
Making a mistake and having a hot time doesn’t mean go nuclear. Your boss gave you another chance and the other person understood and took your apology. Use this as an opportunity to grow and learn. Give those uncomfortable feelings space and recognize why they are present so that in the future you may avoid creating situations for them to exist. You are feeling embarrassed, and that makes sense because you did something embarrassing. Literally all human beings do embarrassing things. It’s how we learn how things work. Not facing what you did and running away to avoid the unpleasant feelings is how you don’t mature or grow wiser.
You move forward by moving on and moving yourself forward by learning how to handle things in an appropriate way. This is an opportunity for you to learn self care and how to be kind to yourself when you are struggling so that you aren’t projecting that unhappiness onto others. Clearly whatever you were doing or not doing to handle all of that stress wasn’t working, so try something else so that next time you’re under pressure like that you don’t throw things and walk out of your job. You’re nineteen, you have a lot to learn. But learn, don’t just run away. You’ll be doing your future self such a tremendous favor.
He’s making it clear he wants to have a Jewish home. It’s a reasonable request just as not wanting to is reasonable. This may be an impasse and means you’re incompatible if you both want different things
Because you're assuming men can't control themselves… You're taking like women can't be trusted. It's frankly gross.
Google for “Daily Cleaning Checklist.” You will find tons of examples. Use those examples to make a list of what makes sense for your home. (There will probably be items that don't apply to your own life, and there may be some things that you think of that aren't on the list, like “clean the gerbil's cage” or something.)
Any daily checklist will be more than doable for someone sitting at home all day while their partner is at work.
Give him the list and tell him this is what you'd like him to complete each day. If he needs, he can set reminders on his phone (“It's 2 PM, have you finished the checklist today?”).
Honestly there's a good chance that he still won't do it, but if he doesn't, he won't have the excuse that he doesn't know what needs to be done.
LMAO thanks SO MUCH for telling on yourself. now it’s obvious where all the vitriol is coming from, you’re trying to defend your own life choices. Your mom shouldn’t be used as your maid, chef, and personal shopper, you should be doing all that yourself. You identify with OPs boyfriend so you’re defending him with every ounce of your being to try and defend yourself. Thanks for the laugh, your admission really made my whole night. I’m saving this thread now ????
So what do you actually like ? Lol.
You've listed so pretty big deal breakers here. Boundary crossing all over.
What are you doing lol
Yeah one of our cats suddenly started peeing on the carpet downstairs and it turned out it had developed diabetes. Didn't even realise animals could have that until that point
This is classic controlling behavior.
Is it normal for your fuck buddy to touch you sexually? You're a grown ass woman, what do you think?.
It was because he is always busy, and everytime we make plans he cancels because he has to do something else and stuff. I mean like I understand it can happen sometimes but if we haven’t seen eachother for 3 weeks and we make plans it’s pretty rude to cancel plans 1 hour before we meet.