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Everyone is different, and I don't know your husband. But we often assume that all men are a hive mind – attracted to the same body types and clothing styles, sex on the brain all the time, picturing themselves having sex every woman they see at a baseline. To be fair, it's not a completely baseless assumption, but for the men I've gotten to know very well, none of that could be any further from the truth. They're mindful not to view women as objects that exist for their fantasies or enjoyment, and they are committed partners who – while able to acknowledge the objective attractiveness of people they see – are most “turned on” by the person at home who knows them intimately.
If you know, love, and trust your partner, can you really see him actively comparing you, his wife and mother of his unborn child, to a bunch of scantily clad strangers at his job? If you think he's like that, then he will be like that no matter where he is or what he's doing, so the real question is, why are you with him?
If you don't think he's like that, then isn't it a little unfair to both of you if you allow those baseless fears to affect your relationship or your feelings about him? Wouldn't it be better to tell him about the negative feelings you're having about yourself and how they're bleeding into your feelings about this job?
It depends on how forward you guys are with other things. If you talk dirty frequently… then no, that wasn't too forward. But if you usually have light flirtation, it could be a little shocking to jump right up to deepthroating.
It could also be that he doesn't have a big dick, and you saying that you are going to “deepthroat” him made him feel nervous about your expectations.
I’m sorry, OP, but that would be it for me. That postponement would be a cancellation of the whole relationship.
Since he wants to bring kids into the discussion about emotional support pets, let’s use future kids as an example: what happens when you’re pregnant, OB appointments every three, two, then every week (if it’s a totally healthy pregnancy), preparing everything for an infant, then the actual baby arrives and you’re dealing with a brand new routine, sleep deprivation, stress, all on top of the AT LEAST six weeks of postpartum issues your body will go through…you don’t want a husband that’s going to leave all that on you alone because his adult brother can’t handle his own life.
He doesn’t prioritize you, he doesn’t put you first, and with past behavior being the best indicator of future results, he’s never going to put you above his brother.
For one, that's NOT your friend. Dump her and set clear boundaries with your bf about NC. Block her from ALL social media. Kudos to your bf for letting you know. Stick together and I'd let your other friends know what's up.
She has taken up new hobbies and met some new friends…do you know her new friends? Is there anything going on with the friends that make you suspect that she might have interests somewhere else?
So I’m not letting either of you off the hook here, but maybe… when you talk to him about it, you both decide to stop drinking for a month and see if this sort of thing doesn’t just go away on its own.
You’re both young. But not so young that you can’t see by now that you can either be a couple that gets blitzed together or you can be a couple that lives a long life together.
To start, I absolutely am not excusing what you did. You pushed him not once, but twice. Regardless of what your reason for doing so was, laying a hand on your partner (or anyone – unless in self defense) is never ok.
But I think more information is necessary. Is this actually the first time you’ve done this? Has he ever gotten physical?
Either way, I just can’t imagine a reaction like this happens in a silo. I just refuse to believe that after all the time you’ve been together including having children, that either of your actions are coming from a place of a random single shitty incident. You’ll have to confirm.
Anecdotally, I’m a guy and I’m happy married. If I were ever truly abused, I assure you I’d leave. But I’m trying to put things into perspective here. Let’s use your example and my wife asks me to lower my voice a number of times and I brush her off.
She then pushes me. Would I be ok with that? No, as I’ve said. But let’s be logical here; a push? If we’re talking about nothing but an immaterial painless shove barely moving me or effecting actual physical harm (while again, it’s still not ok), my immediate response would be divorce?
Doubtful. And that’s the point here. There’s absolutely no way he’s here threatening divorce based on this incident alone. This is likely yet another symptom of a much larger problem that’s existed probably for the duration of your relationship.
You can’t be everyone’s type, try not to take it personally. I’ve been on dates with attractive enough ppl but just didn’t feel a flirty chemistry so did the same. I’ve had it done to me a few times too. It was a surprise the first time as when I used to date 10 years ago ppl would always send a follow up message to say thanks but maybe not a repeat (not that blunt). He did that, it sounds like he felt it was lacking that spark and that’s okay.
Everyone is different, and I don't know your husband. But we often assume that all men are a hive mind – attracted to the same body types and clothing styles, sex on the brain all the time, picturing themselves having sex every woman they see at a baseline. To be fair, it's not a completely baseless assumption, but for the men I've gotten to know very well, none of that could be any further from the truth. They're mindful not to view women as objects that exist for their fantasies or enjoyment, and they are committed partners who – while able to acknowledge the objective attractiveness of people they see – are most “turned on” by the person at home who knows them intimately.
If you know, love, and trust your partner, can you really see him actively comparing you, his wife and mother of his unborn child, to a bunch of scantily clad strangers at his job? If you think he's like that, then he will be like that no matter where he is or what he's doing, so the real question is, why are you with him?
If you don't think he's like that, then isn't it a little unfair to both of you if you allow those baseless fears to affect your relationship or your feelings about him? Wouldn't it be better to tell him about the negative feelings you're having about yourself and how they're bleeding into your feelings about this job?
It depends on how forward you guys are with other things. If you talk dirty frequently… then no, that wasn't too forward. But if you usually have light flirtation, it could be a little shocking to jump right up to deepthroating.
It could also be that he doesn't have a big dick, and you saying that you are going to “deepthroat” him made him feel nervous about your expectations.
I’m sorry, OP, but that would be it for me. That postponement would be a cancellation of the whole relationship.
Since he wants to bring kids into the discussion about emotional support pets, let’s use future kids as an example: what happens when you’re pregnant, OB appointments every three, two, then every week (if it’s a totally healthy pregnancy), preparing everything for an infant, then the actual baby arrives and you’re dealing with a brand new routine, sleep deprivation, stress, all on top of the AT LEAST six weeks of postpartum issues your body will go through…you don’t want a husband that’s going to leave all that on you alone because his adult brother can’t handle his own life.
He doesn’t prioritize you, he doesn’t put you first, and with past behavior being the best indicator of future results, he’s never going to put you above his brother.
For one, that's NOT your friend. Dump her and set clear boundaries with your bf about NC. Block her from ALL social media. Kudos to your bf for letting you know. Stick together and I'd let your other friends know what's up.
He’s supposed to be a mind reader?
She has taken up new hobbies and met some new friends…do you know her new friends? Is there anything going on with the friends that make you suspect that she might have interests somewhere else?
If you’re in a committed relationship, why are you getting tested so often? Is there a history of infidelity?
So I’m not letting either of you off the hook here, but maybe… when you talk to him about it, you both decide to stop drinking for a month and see if this sort of thing doesn’t just go away on its own.
You’re both young. But not so young that you can’t see by now that you can either be a couple that gets blitzed together or you can be a couple that lives a long life together.
To start, I absolutely am not excusing what you did. You pushed him not once, but twice. Regardless of what your reason for doing so was, laying a hand on your partner (or anyone – unless in self defense) is never ok.
But I think more information is necessary. Is this actually the first time you’ve done this? Has he ever gotten physical?
Either way, I just can’t imagine a reaction like this happens in a silo. I just refuse to believe that after all the time you’ve been together including having children, that either of your actions are coming from a place of a random single shitty incident. You’ll have to confirm.
Anecdotally, I’m a guy and I’m happy married. If I were ever truly abused, I assure you I’d leave. But I’m trying to put things into perspective here. Let’s use your example and my wife asks me to lower my voice a number of times and I brush her off.
She then pushes me. Would I be ok with that? No, as I’ve said. But let’s be logical here; a push? If we’re talking about nothing but an immaterial painless shove barely moving me or effecting actual physical harm (while again, it’s still not ok), my immediate response would be divorce?
Doubtful. And that’s the point here. There’s absolutely no way he’s here threatening divorce based on this incident alone. This is likely yet another symptom of a much larger problem that’s existed probably for the duration of your relationship.
You’ll have to let us know.
You always pick the dog. Your soon to be ex is an immature asshole.
So when are you two starting therapy?
You can’t be everyone’s type, try not to take it personally. I’ve been on dates with attractive enough ppl but just didn’t feel a flirty chemistry so did the same. I’ve had it done to me a few times too. It was a surprise the first time as when I used to date 10 years ago ppl would always send a follow up message to say thanks but maybe not a repeat (not that blunt). He did that, it sounds like he felt it was lacking that spark and that’s okay.