your bf sounds immature as fuck and fragile ego to boot.
a normal man’s reaction to this: “oh wow im glad your dad helped out! let me know if you want to take the car to the shop to do any checks” and thats it. no fuss no tantrum.
your bf on the other hand, felt the need to exert his dominance like a fucking 6 yo. and then there is the belittling of your interests. i dont get how women sees shit like this and have to ask. set a bar for yourself for fucks sake
Burst the fuck out of his bubble. Don't sugar coat it. Say something like, “I'm not ready for a threesome. Maybe one day I will be, but frankly I'm concerned with how little you regarded my feelings on this matter.”
To put this into perspective, would you stick your finger up his ass in the middle of a blowjob?
Some people are into that, but I think we both agree that everyone expects to be asked first. And if your boyfriend jokingly responded or brushed you off, you wouldn't take that as express permission to jam you unlubed finger up his asshole.
Any drastic change to your sex life should involve extensive discussion between all parties involved. What are your boundaries, what do you want to get out of it, what are you okay with giving, etc.
Why the hell did he ask for his friend's permission before he asked you, that's fucked up.
You made your bed, now lie in it.
Don't it feel like you're riding on a down-bound train.
Are you really asking if his feelings (those of a spoiled 5 year old btw) are justified here? Bc seriously….no.
Seems like your decision needs to be if you want kids or not. Wife seems like a nope on the subject so better come to terms with that.
If she is your ex, keep it that way. Move on and on-line your best life
your bf sounds immature as fuck and fragile ego to boot.
a normal man’s reaction to this: “oh wow im glad your dad helped out! let me know if you want to take the car to the shop to do any checks” and thats it. no fuss no tantrum.
your bf on the other hand, felt the need to exert his dominance like a fucking 6 yo. and then there is the belittling of your interests. i dont get how women sees shit like this and have to ask. set a bar for yourself for fucks sake
change your code
Burst the fuck out of his bubble. Don't sugar coat it. Say something like, “I'm not ready for a threesome. Maybe one day I will be, but frankly I'm concerned with how little you regarded my feelings on this matter.”
To put this into perspective, would you stick your finger up his ass in the middle of a blowjob?
Some people are into that, but I think we both agree that everyone expects to be asked first. And if your boyfriend jokingly responded or brushed you off, you wouldn't take that as express permission to jam you unlubed finger up his asshole.
Any drastic change to your sex life should involve extensive discussion between all parties involved. What are your boundaries, what do you want to get out of it, what are you okay with giving, etc.
Why the hell did he ask for his friend's permission before he asked you, that's fucked up.