Why are you wasting your time with a man who announces that he wants to be unfaithful to you? He doesn't want a monogamous relationship, so if that's what you want, you are unsuitable for each other.
Let me tell you a story My bf and I have been dating for over a year and are your age. I told him that I wanted to on-line in Japan for a month or three. He told me that he would miss me but to have fun. And I wouldn’t do the same for him.
Any partner who can’t trust you and isn’t happy that you get this incredible opportunity is not a partner worth pleasing.
I would advise against taking other people's bad mood personally and making them feel guilty for not being happy and chatty. I sometimes get caught up in it too, but I am learning to acknowledge that sometimes the other person just isn't in the right headspace and needs some time to relax and recharge. Especially if he was acting the same with his family means it likely didn't have anything to do with you and it's not very healthy to make somebody else's feelings about yourself, even if it's hard to keep yourself in check and regroup your mindset.
Sometimes having an evening or day to yourself can do miracles for one's mental health, it doesn't mean that they love you any less, they just need to live! themselves for a little bit. Forcing him to spend time with you and making him feel bad for his needs probably won't do much good for the relationship.
Hope I helped to give you a different perspective and calm your mind a little bit =)
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Good for him
nope nope nope nope trust your gut on this
Can your wife run a marathon?
Why are you wasting your time with a man who announces that he wants to be unfaithful to you? He doesn't want a monogamous relationship, so if that's what you want, you are unsuitable for each other.
She loves he treats her like a queen. Not that she loves him.
Let me tell you a story My bf and I have been dating for over a year and are your age. I told him that I wanted to on-line in Japan for a month or three. He told me that he would miss me but to have fun. And I wouldn’t do the same for him.
Any partner who can’t trust you and isn’t happy that you get this incredible opportunity is not a partner worth pleasing.
That’s what I’m worried about I don’t want to affect my relationship with brother in-law
I would advise against taking other people's bad mood personally and making them feel guilty for not being happy and chatty. I sometimes get caught up in it too, but I am learning to acknowledge that sometimes the other person just isn't in the right headspace and needs some time to relax and recharge. Especially if he was acting the same with his family means it likely didn't have anything to do with you and it's not very healthy to make somebody else's feelings about yourself, even if it's hard to keep yourself in check and regroup your mindset.
Sometimes having an evening or day to yourself can do miracles for one's mental health, it doesn't mean that they love you any less, they just need to live! themselves for a little bit. Forcing him to spend time with you and making him feel bad for his needs probably won't do much good for the relationship.
Hope I helped to give you a different perspective and calm your mind a little bit =)