Some do, and some don't. I bought my wife enough to fill up a hobby lobby treasure chest. If you're scared of being emasculated by a rubber dick with a battery, then you already emasculated yourself imo.
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
It’s not that deep. No married man at 44 is going to look to instagram a specifically a much younger woman to gain a new friend. You can act naive as much as you want but there is 0 chance he just wanted a new bff and found your message at the right time.
Men and women alike can break up with their partner if they are not happy in their relationship. I'm not sure what kind of advice specific to men only you think might be out there…
However, if you say your relationship is overall a happy one, why don't you try to talk to your girlfriend about your grievances before jumping straight to the idea of breaking up?
What if he is seeing someone after two days? Either he had someone in the wings,or he’s picking a stranger. Ready to move on very quickly. Is that the kind of man you want?
Your behavior is NOT okay. Look into therapy to move on.
I have the same situation with my husband, I’m a female. Someone had scratched his back and left marks. Personally I don’t think about it anymore, but we’ve been together for 10 years. That being said in the beginning it was nude. He told me it was a one night stand, I know who with, we kinda laughed it off since it was such an odd situation. Personally though I hated that she “left her mark on him” I guess over time I realized I know him better than anyone else ever has, we have given each other new sexual experiences, and I know he enjoys our sex significantly more. After we got engaged she tried to add me on Facebook and I asked how she knew me and didn’t accept her friend request after she said a funeral ?
Im sorry that u are going through this…. that being said, your dad wasnt hiding this to hurt u. He wasnt out looking for a date… it just happened… he asked your so to gauge the backlash that may come from it which is also why your so didnt tell u. Your dad wasnt/isnt sure this situation and dates will become anything more than just a date… perhaps he didnt want to get u upset for something that more than likely wasnt going to lead to anything serious. I know its very hot to watch your parents move on when the other is gone (I've got first-hand experience w this myself) but i assure you he sisnt want to hurt you and didn't want u to find out this way. He had intended for you to find out only when he was ready and if it was going to be more than a date… unfortunately as kuck would have it you stumbled upon them randomly and he knew he was caught so he “tore the bandaid off” and introduced you to her. As hard as it was for u im sire it was equally very hot on him… he loves u and doesn't want to hurt you or disrespect your mother bc he loves her too. Talk to your dad, dont ket this drive a wedge between you two. I lost 10 years w my dad bc i found out he was dating “by accident” and didnt take it well… i regret that lost time more than i can express.
In the vanishingly unlikely scenario that there is some identifying mark and they notice, just say you bought it on Facebook marketplace for like $5. Its not a stretch for someone to have picked up the rug off the street, cleaned it and then sold it through FB marketplace, just a funny coincidence that they sold it to you
I don't know if I am the exception, and I don't know you two, obviously, but: I find Brokeback Mountain incredibly sad.
One of the saddest movies I ever saw.
Terrible first date fodder.
Some do, and some don't. I bought my wife enough to fill up a hobby lobby treasure chest. If you're scared of being emasculated by a rubber dick with a battery, then you already emasculated yourself imo.
Exactly. Rip that bandage off. Call him up. “Hey, remember when I asked to talk and you said no? Well, you’re a father.” Go from there.
Hello /u/peaches746,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
It’s not that deep. No married man at 44 is going to look to instagram a specifically a much younger woman to gain a new friend. You can act naive as much as you want but there is 0 chance he just wanted a new bff and found your message at the right time.
Men and women alike can break up with their partner if they are not happy in their relationship. I'm not sure what kind of advice specific to men only you think might be out there…
However, if you say your relationship is overall a happy one, why don't you try to talk to your girlfriend about your grievances before jumping straight to the idea of breaking up?
Oh the relationship? The relationship is fucked. I'm just thinking about revenge
What if he is seeing someone after two days? Either he had someone in the wings,or he’s picking a stranger. Ready to move on very quickly. Is that the kind of man you want?
Your behavior is NOT okay. Look into therapy to move on.
I have the same situation with my husband, I’m a female. Someone had scratched his back and left marks. Personally I don’t think about it anymore, but we’ve been together for 10 years. That being said in the beginning it was nude. He told me it was a one night stand, I know who with, we kinda laughed it off since it was such an odd situation. Personally though I hated that she “left her mark on him” I guess over time I realized I know him better than anyone else ever has, we have given each other new sexual experiences, and I know he enjoys our sex significantly more. After we got engaged she tried to add me on Facebook and I asked how she knew me and didn’t accept her friend request after she said a funeral ?
Im sorry that u are going through this…. that being said, your dad wasnt hiding this to hurt u. He wasnt out looking for a date… it just happened… he asked your so to gauge the backlash that may come from it which is also why your so didnt tell u. Your dad wasnt/isnt sure this situation and dates will become anything more than just a date… perhaps he didnt want to get u upset for something that more than likely wasnt going to lead to anything serious. I know its very hot to watch your parents move on when the other is gone (I've got first-hand experience w this myself) but i assure you he sisnt want to hurt you and didn't want u to find out this way. He had intended for you to find out only when he was ready and if it was going to be more than a date… unfortunately as kuck would have it you stumbled upon them randomly and he knew he was caught so he “tore the bandaid off” and introduced you to her. As hard as it was for u im sire it was equally very hot on him… he loves u and doesn't want to hurt you or disrespect your mother bc he loves her too. Talk to your dad, dont ket this drive a wedge between you two. I lost 10 years w my dad bc i found out he was dating “by accident” and didnt take it well… i regret that lost time more than i can express.
In the vanishingly unlikely scenario that there is some identifying mark and they notice, just say you bought it on Facebook marketplace for like $5. Its not a stretch for someone to have picked up the rug off the street, cleaned it and then sold it through FB marketplace, just a funny coincidence that they sold it to you