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I eventually worked through it & after being on anxiety meds for a year, i've now got it under control. We realised it came from me living with a narcissistic ex-friend for a few years. Rough times lol
That’s why you need to find out and then leave as soon as possible. Probably is that some men beat around the bush with this topic and just waste our precious time, instead of being honest from the beginning.
My apologies, this is my first post ever. We’re both elementary school teachers in different grades so we don’t need to interact day to day. Our school employees range from early 20s to early 30s so we’re all still young, most are single with a few in relationships. The only other instance of coworkers dating at my job is a 3rd grade teacher and the music teacher but they’ve been together for 5 years at this point.
It sounds like she’s being truthful, only you can choose to believe her or not. Do you have any reason not to trust her?
Regardless, it sounds like you’re uncomfortable with the whole thing. It’s a good time to start thinking of a boundary to discuss with her. Let her know in a non judgey or blaming way. Say you understand how it happened and you trust her, you just are not comfortable with that type of thing. In my relationship I would do the same thing. A guy I don’t know sitting on a bed with my girlfriend talking about his relationship struggles would cross a line.
Everyone is different. To some people I’m sure it doesn’t matter and wouldn’t matter.
The relationship has ended so honestly she is free to date other guys if she wants to.
Often dating around is part of the moving on process, that can be really very hot to accept but it's not going to do you any good knowing the ins and outs of her dating life. It wouldn't really be fair to 'confront' her about this as she's allowed to do whatever she wants seeing as you aren't committed to each other anymore – I understand that it hurts when someone says they won't be speaking to other people, but people say all sorts of things in the heat of a breakup (I won't see other people, we can still be friends etc) and once they've had more time to process things, that might change.
I suggest removing her from social media and taking a break from talking to her, if you're still hoping to be friends in the future you can always let her know you're deleting her socials to give yourself some space to move on if you're worried about it seeming hostile
I have the Same with my girlfriend. Theres times where she gets triggered and basically flees the situation, or she’ll have terrible nightmares. We came to the conclusion that she needs therapy since its obviously PTSD.
This. I had an ex once cheat on me with someone that has the same name as me. I found out when he texted me in the middle of the night telling me how great of a time he had with me, except he cancelled our date that night because he claimed he had to work. Doofus didn’t even bother to check which one he was sending it to.
Nah, that's not fear. That's being fed up. I know where she's coming from, but on a smaller scale. She's with a man that one year gambled away a quarter or better of his income for that year. He hasn't saved any of his income in the time they've been together, and the only savings he has are from before they got together, and he lied to her about that. He squanders away everything he makes, with no thought to the future. She makes 7x less than he does and managed to save $150K in 5 years, while has has saved nothing of his own income in that same time period. I'd say she knows far more about money and responsible financial management than you are giving her credit for.
I eventually worked through it & after being on anxiety meds for a year, i've now got it under control. We realised it came from me living with a narcissistic ex-friend for a few years. Rough times lol
That’s why you need to find out and then leave as soon as possible. Probably is that some men beat around the bush with this topic and just waste our precious time, instead of being honest from the beginning.
My apologies, this is my first post ever. We’re both elementary school teachers in different grades so we don’t need to interact day to day. Our school employees range from early 20s to early 30s so we’re all still young, most are single with a few in relationships. The only other instance of coworkers dating at my job is a 3rd grade teacher and the music teacher but they’ve been together for 5 years at this point.
It sounds like she’s being truthful, only you can choose to believe her or not. Do you have any reason not to trust her?
Regardless, it sounds like you’re uncomfortable with the whole thing. It’s a good time to start thinking of a boundary to discuss with her. Let her know in a non judgey or blaming way. Say you understand how it happened and you trust her, you just are not comfortable with that type of thing. In my relationship I would do the same thing. A guy I don’t know sitting on a bed with my girlfriend talking about his relationship struggles would cross a line.
Everyone is different. To some people I’m sure it doesn’t matter and wouldn’t matter.
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The relationship has ended so honestly she is free to date other guys if she wants to.
Often dating around is part of the moving on process, that can be really very hot to accept but it's not going to do you any good knowing the ins and outs of her dating life. It wouldn't really be fair to 'confront' her about this as she's allowed to do whatever she wants seeing as you aren't committed to each other anymore – I understand that it hurts when someone says they won't be speaking to other people, but people say all sorts of things in the heat of a breakup (I won't see other people, we can still be friends etc) and once they've had more time to process things, that might change.
I suggest removing her from social media and taking a break from talking to her, if you're still hoping to be friends in the future you can always let her know you're deleting her socials to give yourself some space to move on if you're worried about it seeming hostile
Take her to therapy man, she needs it
I must have missed the rule that says Disney is for kids. Where does it say that? And more so, why does it say that? And why do you believe it?
I have the Same with my girlfriend. Theres times where she gets triggered and basically flees the situation, or she’ll have terrible nightmares. We came to the conclusion that she needs therapy since its obviously PTSD.
This. I had an ex once cheat on me with someone that has the same name as me. I found out when he texted me in the middle of the night telling me how great of a time he had with me, except he cancelled our date that night because he claimed he had to work. Doofus didn’t even bother to check which one he was sending it to.
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What do you want? To be clear, I’m not asking what you want from us. What do you want from her?
Nah, that's not fear. That's being fed up. I know where she's coming from, but on a smaller scale. She's with a man that one year gambled away a quarter or better of his income for that year. He hasn't saved any of his income in the time they've been together, and the only savings he has are from before they got together, and he lied to her about that. He squanders away everything he makes, with no thought to the future. She makes 7x less than he does and managed to save $150K in 5 years, while has has saved nothing of his own income in that same time period. I'd say she knows far more about money and responsible financial management than you are giving her credit for.