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Date: November 6, 2022
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Jesus christ.
You're checking to see if you're uncomfortable or not?
Why can't you think for yourself? You realllllly had to have reddit decide for you?
Use your brain. Figure out how you feel on your own. This is asinine.
If we give him the benefit of a doubt, that sounds reasonable
Gross. Leave her alone.
What you did was terrible, but I think since everyone's telling you that someone should at least point out that you let yourself show him a vulnerable side of yourself, said what you needed, and he dismissed it because he decided that he knew what you needed more than you did.
Again, not an excuse; but this is the result people get when they don't face reality, shit goes wrong. I'm saying that as a guy who's been cheated on a whole lot every time I try to “build something” in a relationship.
Since I'm encouraging you to face reality, the reality is your relationship is dead now: you two will still get married, you'll spend too god damned long together blocking each other from trying to find relationships that could work, and then one day one of you will realize that you've just been doing this because you didn't want to admit that things ended. Again, that's everyone's fault. You betrayed, he neglected.
Your best bet for you two getting back on track is to end it now and hopefully in the future after you two are different people you think of each other fondly and get back together; but that would still be starting a new relationship. People need time to heal, which they don't have if they're trying to ignore their injuries.
You're filling in gaps you weren't around for. There was no risk of any break up at the time and the comments weren't sought out. These were long, deep, thoughtful conversations that again have taken place over years and condensed for the sake of a Reddit post. You're assuming the intent behind it and that it wasn't meant. How can you presume to know more about who he is than I do? I may be seeking outside perspective and advice but I'm not looking for a stranger to cherry pick from what I've said to twist my whole life in knots. I've given the background to the best of my ability to try to work out what to do for him from here.
He is depressed and he is overwhelmed, but he's not an idiot and hasn't spent the last six years wilfully digging his own grave. He deserves so much more credit than that.
If you only know two dimensional characters then maybe get out a bit more before you trash other people that way, again especially when they are particularly vulnerable.
You're also not coming at this the same way as everyone else so don't make out like it's me against everyone. You're being needlessly cruel and creating a totally warped image out of what I have offered – that's not and everyone thing, that's a you thing.