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My boyfriend (29) lives in his moms house (62) with the excuse she is sick and he needs to take care of her, and pay all the bills… I (31) own my house and have 5 dogs. Bf and me have been together for 3 years, and our rutine is pretty simple: he gets home from work, I go over, shower together, we have dinner, watch movies, nap together, and then i come back home… nothing out of the ordinary. He have asked me multiple times to leave my dogs alone and spend the night with him, and I’ve done it a couple times before, but i usually don’t feel comfortable leaving the dogs alone all night and all day when i’m at work. Last night I was planning to spend the night at his house since my dogs were at my exs, so i didn’t have to worry about leaving them alone, and both, bf and myself, were off the next day… Long story short: i went over, we had dinner, we watched a soccer game, and when it ended i asked him for a toothbrush so i could brush my teeth and go to bed, but right here is when he went all crazy on me. He started laughing, and saying i couldn’t spend the night, that i needed to go home, that he didn’t invite me over to spend the night, and he had only invited me to watch the game and that was it. That maybe it was a mistake he even invited me to watch that soccer game. I was shocked, i couldn’t believe whatever he was saying at this point, i asked him is he was joking, cause that was not funny at all, but he was death serious. He said i need an invitation to go over his house and if i don’t have one, i shouldn’t just show up. We were arguing for a couple minutes about the situation, and apparently i’m the wrong one because, in his own words, ‘i don’t belong there’ and i can’t understand it. So i broke up with him, told him i was done with his shit, how stupid and selfish he was, and blocked him out my life.
I’m very upset about all this still. He never comes over to my house, for any reason, and i don’t feel like i need and invitation to go over. Or at least he doesn’t need one to come to my house and spend the night, or do whatever he wants here, but he doesn’t like coming over because, what he says, it reminds him of my ex.
Do i really need an invitation to even show up at his house?