Hopefully this doesn't get lost, but my BF took benadryl (like the normal amount, 1 or 2 pills) and he couldn't orgasm at all. So maybe that's something that could work?
If you didn’t make it clear that you want to go just the two of you, she’ll assume it’s with the friend group, especially if y’all do things like this together all the time. Better to be straightforward, no confusion, if you want a straight answer.
There will be drinking and dancing at the wedding and if you aren’t there because you are being a child and having a tantrum, expect her to hook up with her ex-hook up. If their sex was meaningless in the past, it will be meaningless now. You’ve only been dating her six months and this will give her the perfect opportunity to see what her life is like without you. If you can show her you aren’t jealous and realize people can be friends with their exes, you have a chance at a long relationship. Otherwise know that you are going to be another ex but not one that she will stay friends with.
Honestly, I would be far too pissed off to address this nonchalantly. I would expect to see myself, thirst traps and possibly an accidental forgot to delete photo of an ex. But a bunch of them and friends? Wtf Must be real comforting to know you are about to marry some jerk who has friends that pose hard for him. Like why does he even still have them. That’s so fucking disrespectful to you and your relationship.
That's really none of your business. If he is married, just stay away from him, no matter how interested he might be. There are no excuses.
Hopefully this doesn't get lost, but my BF took benadryl (like the normal amount, 1 or 2 pills) and he couldn't orgasm at all. So maybe that's something that could work?
If you didn’t make it clear that you want to go just the two of you, she’ll assume it’s with the friend group, especially if y’all do things like this together all the time. Better to be straightforward, no confusion, if you want a straight answer.
There will be drinking and dancing at the wedding and if you aren’t there because you are being a child and having a tantrum, expect her to hook up with her ex-hook up. If their sex was meaningless in the past, it will be meaningless now. You’ve only been dating her six months and this will give her the perfect opportunity to see what her life is like without you. If you can show her you aren’t jealous and realize people can be friends with their exes, you have a chance at a long relationship. Otherwise know that you are going to be another ex but not one that she will stay friends with.
Honestly, I would be far too pissed off to address this nonchalantly. I would expect to see myself, thirst traps and possibly an accidental forgot to delete photo of an ex. But a bunch of them and friends? Wtf Must be real comforting to know you are about to marry some jerk who has friends that pose hard for him. Like why does he even still have them. That’s so fucking disrespectful to you and your relationship.
You probably already should have left.
At minimum you should get yourself to therapy, and your kids too. To prepare for all of you being away from him.