My fiance said “why tf are you even with me, you should just leave”. I took my pillow and blanket, slept on the couch and the next day when he sobered up, I asked him if he really wanted me to leave. I would if he wanted me to, but that would be it. I'm not playing games of “oh I didn't mean it” and other shit. He said no. I told him if he ever said that to me again I would leave without looking back.
He ended up calling his sister and BIL who chewed him out for it too and asked him how he would have felt if I had said it to him.
He hasn't even raised his voice to me since. It's been 3 years now since that incident. We also don't use empty threats for ending our relationship either.
Boundaries are important in every relationship. Whether it be couples, friends, family etc.
You guys should not be partners. You tumbled into his lap and moved in now having a baby. This isn’t a “we can make it work” situation. Both of those decisions take a lot of time and consideration to make.
He was kind at first and now he’s stuck please don’t trick yourself into thinking it’s anything else.
Wait so he doesn’t wanna pay for you because he’s saving up for a car and you can’t pay because you’re financially struggling. Meaning.. he’d rather pay for a car than for you to eat..? Idk how there could be any other argument besides wtf
I am listening because I am forced to listen. But I need waaaay too much time to understand what people are trying to say.
No. Get an abortion and get as far away from this man as possible. DO NOT HAVE A BABY WITH HIM
My fiance said “why tf are you even with me, you should just leave”. I took my pillow and blanket, slept on the couch and the next day when he sobered up, I asked him if he really wanted me to leave. I would if he wanted me to, but that would be it. I'm not playing games of “oh I didn't mean it” and other shit. He said no. I told him if he ever said that to me again I would leave without looking back.
He ended up calling his sister and BIL who chewed him out for it too and asked him how he would have felt if I had said it to him.
He hasn't even raised his voice to me since. It's been 3 years now since that incident. We also don't use empty threats for ending our relationship either.
Boundaries are important in every relationship. Whether it be couples, friends, family etc.
You guys should not be partners. You tumbled into his lap and moved in now having a baby. This isn’t a “we can make it work” situation. Both of those decisions take a lot of time and consideration to make.
He was kind at first and now he’s stuck please don’t trick yourself into thinking it’s anything else.
Wait so he doesn’t wanna pay for you because he’s saving up for a car and you can’t pay because you’re financially struggling. Meaning.. he’d rather pay for a car than for you to eat..? Idk how there could be any other argument besides wtf