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Date: October 12, 2022
I don’t mean to sound like I’m coming down hot on you but you’re wording of your post doesn’t sound like you are . Someone that’s taking accountability would’ve said I fucked up and read my girlfriend’s journal behind her back but you word it as if it action of which you had no control over . It doesn’t even sound like you have any remorse over invading her privacy . It sounds like you justify it by claiming it’s right to know what’s going on for her . It also sounds like you haven’t truly healed from past experiences in relationships . If you feel the relationship isn’t moving forward for the better maybe you should do some reflection over whether it’s best to remain in it . Maybe seek therapy and take time to heal before getting into another relationship . I know everybody suggests this and this is a classic Reddit response but as someone that’s currently in therapy I truly believe it’s a suggestion that will be of great help to you if you can afford to do so.
Have you communicated how this makes you feel to him?
Depending on the price of the house, $220k could be the 20% down payment.
You're an idiot. She's absolutely going to pawn that and probably ditch you.
Won't make him less of asshole
She loves attention more than she loves you. This would be dealbreaker territory for me. I know it’s cliche for the subreddit to recommend breakups, but if you’re not going to love your partner, why have them?
Even if I had a worse day than a partner, I would still take care of them, it’s not a competition, it’s about taking care of your partner.
he wasn't immediately honest though. he spent a few days acting like the perfect boyfriend to butter her up and drop the bomb
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Give it a rest, she gets it.
Yeah man I'm worried after kids I'll be trapped in an infrequent and monotone sex life. The thing of nightmares. But she has made some progress. And I'm hopeful dropping the birth control will help her libidio
The situation I’ve found myself in is this:
The situation you PUT yourself in
she’d been snooping through my phone and found texts and calls to Kelsey.
That's not no contact, you lied to her. Straight up.
I told Lauren honestly that I was just keeping Kelsey in the know (our Great Dane passed away) because she deserved that much, she was very close to the dog and when we broke up she cried because she was sad she’d never see him again.
YALL. BROKE. UP. she doesn't need “updates”
All told, she raged at me for near enough an hour. She said that her main issue is the fact that I won’t just block Kelsey, which I’ve said I’m not going to do because I’m not a 21 year old kid going through girls like candy,
Oh but you are. Grow up and block her. Like you said you're not a kid, adults can block adults. Clearly yall still have feelings for each other and you should just leave your current gf because honestly both girls deserve better than a non-commital spineless coward who can grow up.
Don't wait for an answer, just block the family and move on. They are not your responsibility to manage.
Oh, I’m so sorry your husband has put you in this position. How horrifying! If I were in your shoes, the answer would be easy – have the baby, husband around or not. Him putting you in this position, after IVF no less, is appalling.
He needs therapy pronto, as do you, to sort out how to process this and move forward. Time is of the essence, but at this point, what do you want? Would you be willing to raise a baby as a single parent? Would you hold on hope that your husband will come around to raising the baby once she/he is born? How would you handle aborting at this stage, would you be able to forgive your husband and start again? Be wary that if he’s saying he’s not ready now, it won’t change in a year. He’s just delaying the inevitable.
However, there is an off-chance he’s just having terrible cold feet – but giving you an ultimatum…I’m sorry ?
Yeah, he's broken up with you. Just because you have to concentrate on exams it doesnt mean you have to end a relationship. You might not be able to spend as much time with your partner because you have to study, but you don't break up with him.
I'd tell him that I've been thinking about it and when he's ready to restart the relationship he should give you a call but until that time the two of you are broken up (not taking a break, broken up). And then I would accept the exams and the break were an excuse and go ahead with my life and treat it like a break up. Delete him, block him and get on with life.
Yes. Not because she thought you were gay but because she laughed about it behind your back with her friends. Not cool.
Have you considered moving forward without your groomer? Also now you know how he saw and sees you. God forbid you ever grow old. He’s gonna be forced to find someone new. But hey you do you.
Why can’t you just break up, I dont understand. Change your number and leave… I’m sorry OP this has happened.
Sounds about right that you would want to control a teenager’s time of fun and exploration
Wise move sir. Wise move.
Find a woman who's core values match your own and be happy. Sadly, I think all your ex will find is years of emptiness.
Goid luck.
Your haven’t even discussed them.
You brushed them off with ‘minor issues’. When you lose yourself, you also detach from the relationship.
Maybe you should have a post about your actual issues and not the coping mechanism?
Your post reminds me a lot of myself. Growing up I was bullied a lot, struggled with friends, had a very hot time connecting to people in uni and later work. According to people I didnt do anything wrong per say, but somehow I would be edged out of groups, be excluded and if I took initiative no one could. As it turns out, in my case I was autistic, I just didnt know.
I have found some lovely little groups of mostly ND and queer people where I feel at home now, there seem to be quite a lot of overlap. These are all wonderfull, kind, thoughfull, hot working people that I feel lucky to have in my life. But they share much of my struggle outside of the group. There is absolutely nothing wrong with them, there is just something about us that dont entirely jive with regulare social standards and norms. We dont do anything wrong, we're just giving off a slight uncanny valley effect to those who are not like us.
There have been studies that points to this as well. What we say isnt nessesarily wrong in any way, but there is something about how we hold ourselves and communicate that alllistics subconsciously pick up on. They couldnt pinpoint what or why, but the studies pointed towards allistic people consistantly being less likely to want to spend more time with the autistic person.
I'm not diagnosing your partner with anything, btw. Its more so that some of us, for different reasons, are just slightly different enough in some way or other that the majority of people will gravitate away from us and more towards the people who are more like themselves. Its just easier for them. Frustrating and hurtfull for the person its happening to, absolutely, but it also doesnt mean that there are anything wrong with them.
Because he has a shit personality and doesn't respect you the way you deserve to be respected in a relationship.
My sympathy for the $90k price runs dry as he's said that he's unwilling to accept any help financially from family due to what essentially boils down to pride. Like, he's voluntarily taking on the burden when he didn't have to. Complaining about it at that point just seems like he's trying run a guilt train on his fiance so he can have more control over the whole event.
How about you have a shred of self respect? Shit got tough for you and she told you to leave. Why would you go back to that? Be serious dawg.
More men would be more interested in her even though she is an open relationship while it's harder to find women interested in it. There is plenty of story on reddit of men thinking opening up would be amazing, and nothing happened while their wives had no issue meeting somebody. What would happen if you were to say no?
Are you American? Because this seems to be the default attitude there (based on a highly scientific study of reddit posts! ;).) – whereas here in the UK, generally I would say attitudes are very different.
I don't have a single ex I wouldn't happily go for a drink with, and I'm still close friends with all the ones I was at all serious with.
''I also feel uncomfortable being physical with him because for many years if I said no he would beg and beg until I gave in''
run.
Third post down on her profile