Reading the comments, OP is in denial that she manipulated her husband into this. Yes, he’s a grown man, but he said “no” and then you “convinced” him to open it up. He found what you weren’t supplying in his other relationship and more than likely your marriage will end. Need to deal with the consequences of your decision. Sucks to be you.
You did absolutely nothing wrong. You're allowed to not want sex at any time, for any reason, and it sucks that your wife is upset with you for it. Lord knows this subreddit would (rightfully!) eviscerate you if you were the one getting mad at her for not putting out.
No. She’d broken up with you in her mind already while you were in jail, and she broke up with you for real when you got out. She moved on to someone new. And honestly it doesn’t matter anymore anyway. She’s your EX. It’s over. Cheating is irrelevant at this point, regardless of when it happened.
He’s probably just a jerk you will end up divorcing, but go through the steps to make sure he’s not depressed or sick first. This is not normal, and should not be treated as if it is.
This is exactly. OP should’ve left long time ago but needs to do it asap. And maybe not tell him before leaving unless there’s other people there supporting her in this.
You need to deal with your own insecurity, rather than inflict on others.
BTDT, and in My decades of dating/ relationship experience it was either that she was deeply insecure and/or she was cheating, and projecting…
Move on.
If he isnt ready then you shouldnt be waiting around for him.
Reading the comments, OP is in denial that she manipulated her husband into this. Yes, he’s a grown man, but he said “no” and then you “convinced” him to open it up. He found what you weren’t supplying in his other relationship and more than likely your marriage will end. Need to deal with the consequences of your decision. Sucks to be you.
He’s treating you like the child he thinks you are compared to him. The age difference makes him feel superior and think he can treat you like shit.
Uh I don't think you should be dating anyone currently
You did absolutely nothing wrong. You're allowed to not want sex at any time, for any reason, and it sucks that your wife is upset with you for it. Lord knows this subreddit would (rightfully!) eviscerate you if you were the one getting mad at her for not putting out.
Absolutely disgusting. Any feelings I might've had for a man like that would die a swift and painless death
That… doesn't bode well for their relationship and it sounds like she might be close to her breaking point.
No. She’d broken up with you in her mind already while you were in jail, and she broke up with you for real when you got out. She moved on to someone new. And honestly it doesn’t matter anymore anyway. She’s your EX. It’s over. Cheating is irrelevant at this point, regardless of when it happened.
He’s probably just a jerk you will end up divorcing, but go through the steps to make sure he’s not depressed or sick first. This is not normal, and should not be treated as if it is.
This is exactly. OP should’ve left long time ago but needs to do it asap. And maybe not tell him before leaving unless there’s other people there supporting her in this.
Are there any …. Devices on your new recycling bin?
Thank you, that makes a lot of sense and I’ll try