Except that she was already ok with waiting until they were finished with school and had started careers. This guy’s timeline is years longer than that, and he told her when they started dating that he never wanted to get married. I don’t believe that he actually changed his mind.
It's highly unlikely he was able to keep the affair secret from the person he was having an affair with.
Him telling me that I’m always all over him isn’t asking for distance?
Except that she was already ok with waiting until they were finished with school and had started careers. This guy’s timeline is years longer than that, and he told her when they started dating that he never wanted to get married. I don’t believe that he actually changed his mind.
he’s reacting out of fear.
or
he’s a controlling manipulator.
figure that out and respond accordingly