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sounds a lot like self centeredness disguised as truly wanting to do what he wants and what is best for him right now.
this paragraph was dripping with just “I”.
like, JFC he broke up with you for his reasons because maybe right now for his mental health he needs to focus on him without you wanting to play the main character in everything.
If you truly love him then respect his choices and what he needs, and you also need to get in therapy and grow up, this isn't some romcom.
Seeking only validation in the action says differently. You want pats on the back here. I completely agree you don’t save people, you still don’t. No, you set bombs off then are shocked when people say it was destructive.
If I was that son I would want to know that info about the father. I would demand he includes his other family in the will otherwise resentment will breed
You don't have to do anything to “mend” this. You're good. It's their responsibility to come around to you. You're an adult in your own home. if they don't come around, that's on them.
I think it's time to hop off social media for awhile, or at least stop attributing so much importance in it.
most cultures
Not really, according to Anthropologists, kissing with tongues is a thing in slightly less than half of all cultures.
I know it feels natural but its cultural.
Yes. He is outright telling her, out loud, that he does not want her to feel validated by other people.
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sounds a lot like self centeredness disguised as truly wanting to do what he wants and what is best for him right now.
this paragraph was dripping with just “I”.
like, JFC he broke up with you for his reasons because maybe right now for his mental health he needs to focus on him without you wanting to play the main character in everything.
If you truly love him then respect his choices and what he needs, and you also need to get in therapy and grow up, this isn't some romcom.
Seeking only validation in the action says differently. You want pats on the back here. I completely agree you don’t save people, you still don’t. No, you set bombs off then are shocked when people say it was destructive.
If I was that son I would want to know that info about the father. I would demand he includes his other family in the will otherwise resentment will breed
You don't have to do anything to “mend” this. You're good. It's their responsibility to come around to you. You're an adult in your own home. if they don't come around, that's on them.
What a shit show