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Tell him to stay away for another month.Take that time to think about what you really want from your life, and if the person he is (not the person you would like him to be, but the person he is) would make that life better.
good advice. Adding to that: When You're in a relationship with someone, a big part of it, is the person You remember, not the person he/she is right now. Especially in longer relationships, You remember the good things about someone, the reason you fell in love with them. Is that the same person? Taking some time apart will help you see that better.
Another thing which would be a concern: why does he want to come back? did his mistress dump him by any chance?
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Think about it, she's not changing now. The goalpost (i.e. proposal) has been moved, a couple times now? Which isn't a bad thing imo given what's happening.
THIS! She sounds very, very manipulative. If OP proposes, the goalpost will change to “after we are married”. And after they are married its game over man – she has him now. If the threat of not getting engaged is not enough to push her toward therapy, then how is actually GETTING engaged going to motivate her? It makes 0 sense. A proposal is a signal that one is happy, and wants to continue, and that things are good and in this instance, a type of “reward” for her. So she is going to get appeased and rewarded for… REFUSING to change. This is upside-down logic.
She simply can tell he is starting to get frustrated and exhausted, so she is trying to tie him down so he doesn't leave before it becomes apparent she will not change.
I kjnow you don't want to break up with him, but he's not going to be suitable for the long haul. God forbid you should get cancer or some other very serious disease. And don't get pregnant with him.
Your wife makes me anxious. She needs therapy. What happens if your child is overweight? Will she shame then into an eating disorder? Also BMI isn't an accurate representation of health.
You're an idiot and y'all are going to get yourselves in deeper legal trouble, hurt, or killed. You aren't working on anything by remaining in a toxic and volatile relationship, especially when you admit y'all both have troubling issues.
I’m not sure. I’m open to anything as long as he tells me the truth. I don’t mind being friends with him, but I’ll be asking to cut the constant talking and his flirting off.
Btw the one who cheated on me was my ex, not the current guy I’m talking about. The cheating was never my fault, it was just his choice since I didn’t mind him keeping in touch w his ex.
As for the current guy, I have no idea why he does that. I only asked about the ex once and that was it. Never had any other issues since I’ve got a lot of friends too.
Tell him to stay away for another month.Take that time to think about what you really want from your life, and if the person he is (not the person you would like him to be, but the person he is) would make that life better.
good advice. Adding to that: When You're in a relationship with someone, a big part of it, is the person You remember, not the person he/she is right now. Especially in longer relationships, You remember the good things about someone, the reason you fell in love with them. Is that the same person? Taking some time apart will help you see that better.
Another thing which would be a concern: why does he want to come back? did his mistress dump him by any chance?
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Think about it, she's not changing now. The goalpost (i.e. proposal) has been moved, a couple times now? Which isn't a bad thing imo given what's happening.
THIS! She sounds very, very manipulative. If OP proposes, the goalpost will change to “after we are married”. And after they are married its game over man – she has him now. If the threat of not getting engaged is not enough to push her toward therapy, then how is actually GETTING engaged going to motivate her? It makes 0 sense. A proposal is a signal that one is happy, and wants to continue, and that things are good and in this instance, a type of “reward” for her. So she is going to get appeased and rewarded for… REFUSING to change. This is upside-down logic.
She simply can tell he is starting to get frustrated and exhausted, so she is trying to tie him down so he doesn't leave before it becomes apparent she will not change.
I kjnow you don't want to break up with him, but he's not going to be suitable for the long haul. God forbid you should get cancer or some other very serious disease. And don't get pregnant with him.
Your wife makes me anxious. She needs therapy. What happens if your child is overweight? Will she shame then into an eating disorder? Also BMI isn't an accurate representation of health.
What are you going to admit? That you find him attractive? Come on, you’re 30 not 12.
Or she has an active warrant
You're an idiot and y'all are going to get yourselves in deeper legal trouble, hurt, or killed. You aren't working on anything by remaining in a toxic and volatile relationship, especially when you admit y'all both have troubling issues.
If there really is less than 0% chance of it working, why bother? Just enjoy your friendship together.
I’m not sure. I’m open to anything as long as he tells me the truth. I don’t mind being friends with him, but I’ll be asking to cut the constant talking and his flirting off.
Btw the one who cheated on me was my ex, not the current guy I’m talking about. The cheating was never my fault, it was just his choice since I didn’t mind him keeping in touch w his ex.
As for the current guy, I have no idea why he does that. I only asked about the ex once and that was it. Never had any other issues since I’ve got a lot of friends too.