You’ve taken your towel away from the situation so she can’t possibly use it by mistake, and she goes and finds it?
What she’s doing here is declaring that you don’t get to have boundaries with her. I would suggest dumping her and tell her that’s why. Since she deliberately refuses to respect your boundaries, she’s lost the privilege of being anywhere near them. Maybe you can reconsider a relationship once she has done some growing up and learned that boundary stomping is unacceptable.
Did something change after he asked you to make you feel this way? Or do you think you may just be fearful of commitment? Nothing is ‘concrete’ it seems; you aren’t married, and even then, it’s a marriage, not a death sentence. Also, you really don’t have to be married to be together. Lots of people have successful relationships that never make it official. Just thoughts. To answer your question: to me, those phrases mean simply that relationships do take work. You don’t just on-line happily ever after without some effort. The practice of considering someone else in all of your decisions can take some getting used to, and maybe even some practice. Choosing to consider someone else’s thoughts/feelings/needs while also having your own is an action. So, verb not a noun.
Ty for this. What you’ve said is helpful and I will start up a positive conversation tomorrow morning after some sleep. I think you may be correct regarding her being left alone or lonely. She doesn’t really do anything or have any friends so she relies on me for socialization and stimulation.
Start acting crazy and turbulent lol
Yeah, I'm with you. I've enjoyed my share of different anime, but it's animated for a reason.
You’ve taken your towel away from the situation so she can’t possibly use it by mistake, and she goes and finds it?
What she’s doing here is declaring that you don’t get to have boundaries with her. I would suggest dumping her and tell her that’s why. Since she deliberately refuses to respect your boundaries, she’s lost the privilege of being anywhere near them. Maybe you can reconsider a relationship once she has done some growing up and learned that boundary stomping is unacceptable.
No breaks , leave her now. Trust me , her lost.
Did something change after he asked you to make you feel this way? Or do you think you may just be fearful of commitment? Nothing is ‘concrete’ it seems; you aren’t married, and even then, it’s a marriage, not a death sentence. Also, you really don’t have to be married to be together. Lots of people have successful relationships that never make it official. Just thoughts. To answer your question: to me, those phrases mean simply that relationships do take work. You don’t just on-line happily ever after without some effort. The practice of considering someone else in all of your decisions can take some getting used to, and maybe even some practice. Choosing to consider someone else’s thoughts/feelings/needs while also having your own is an action. So, verb not a noun.
He’s recorded you “a couple of times”
Ty for this. What you’ve said is helpful and I will start up a positive conversation tomorrow morning after some sleep. I think you may be correct regarding her being left alone or lonely. She doesn’t really do anything or have any friends so she relies on me for socialization and stimulation.