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Date: October 28, 2022
Stop dating him. He doesn't want to change. He was a 40 year old dating someone half his age and had a binge drinking problem. Of course he was going to be a mess.
Your BF is the strange one, not you. Totally normal to love to cook, to cook for bereaved friends, to like the validation of people enjoying your food. Those are like, the most normal human constants across the globe.
To give you my 10 cents OP We all decide what we want in relationships and what we don't. Up to you if you want a sex life without playing with her chest (which may or may not change down the line). There are other ways you could find that turn her on that you enjoy as well, as long as she's open to communicating and exploring things you never know.
She likes being liked, but that’s it. Move on.
You two may be incompatible. Let’s say everyone has a need for emotional closeness on a scale from 0 to 10. You are a 3, she is a 10. You will exhaust yourself trying to give her 10.she won’t feel fulfilled unless she gets level 10 energy. You need level 7 space, she will feel hurt and unconnected if she has to give you level 7 space and only level 3 connection. Neither of you is wrong for your own personal needs. You just might not be a good fit together.
Why don't you go visit him in the US? It should be no problem for you to book a flight and accomodations, you're an adult with a job.
It is hard for an extended period. When I was dating my now wife, it involved an 8 hour drive. I used vacation days and flex days at work to extend a 4 day break to 8 days every month or two… for several months before quitting work and moving to be with her.
Basically, LDR are a storm to be weathered. If you can't keep up the interest or go visit, it will become increasingly difficult.
Perhaps on-line games or other interactive activities?
YOU? The king? How dares she ghosting YOU and damaging your ego. Unlucky. Everyone gets ghosted, nothing more to think about. You don’t want someone who doesn’t want you, and if you do, why do you want someone who doesn’t want you? It’s your issue not here. Your in the wrong not she. Ghosting is not illegal or abusive. She has a life and she don’t want you in it, and you don’t want to be in her life rather because of that reason. Learn self respect and get over it.
First off- if friends are trying to slide into your DM's, advertise the fact to people that you're in a closed relationship now, as otherwise you are potentially just inviting a lot of drama & awkwardness into your life for no good reason. I would also recommend forming distance with any friends who don't respect your boundaries.
Secondly, I don't know what your past relationship trauma is, but if you feel like your past is negatively impacting present-day relationships, it would probably be good to consider doing a few therapy sessions.
It sounds like although you had a lot of issues to deal with when you got first together, you've ended up being a really positive influence on each other, growing together, getting to know each other (and yourselves!) and creating a relationship that is actually right for the both of you. Don't last the past ruin a good thing by not dealing with it properly.
I'm a straight guy and I agree, this is a good example where some guys misogyny really hurts them, but they can't even see it.
Maybe they can't even imagine another women as a threat to their relationship or maybe they delusionally they choose to see it in a kind of 'porny' way. Like that has anything to do with real life.
Whatever the reason it shows a real disregard for their partners emotional inner being. It's like it's totally irrelevant.
I feel the same way about people who completely discount it when their partner had an emotional affair as long as it wasn't physical. To me this shows a very stunted emotional intelligence on that persons part.
It's definitely f-ed up.
Honestly? I COULD have been a slip of the tongue, maybe she ran off because she felt embarrassed haha.
But either way that's great, it probably slipped because she sees you as a great father figure and had a small oopsie. Id take it if I were you, great job bonus dad.
That being said if she does it more than once then you should really have a discussion about it with your wife and her father so everybody is on the same page.
I’m so sorry. You need time to grieve. This came out of nowhere for you. Give yourself time and grieve. Be patient with yourself. You deserve so much more!