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Date: November 6, 2022
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My husband and I are 39 & 40 years old and I’ve been with 1 person (him obviously) and he’s been with 2 (actually I guess 3 if oral only counts). We did get married way too young though.
20 is mind blowing to me. ??
That was really very hot for me to handle but I kinda agreed to it since she said we could still keep in touch through text every now and then.
This wording concerns me. It sounds like she was giving you a heads up as a courtesy, not asking for your permission or a compromise. But you seem to think you still have some say or control over how she lives her life, which you don’t. I’m guessing this breakup was a long time coming.
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Pls get the cats two litter boxes and clean the litter at least once a day. Also dump the dude, people tend to lose respect for others when they’re using them.
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Stop making assumptions and focus on the facts at hand. You're sexually incompatible, you've talked about it, and nothing has changed.
Knowing that, is that really want you want to commit to for the rest of your life? Then after that you provide a laundry list or reasons why you're miserable. I think you know the answer here, and it's obviously the one you're avoiding. Good luck.
They were there before she started dating you. And it’s probably what attracted you to her. Never said it was a significant change, just said that you know what you signed up for.
He's been quite clear that he doesn't want to get married, or at least not to you within your time frame. You compromised, and then he didn't do it anyway. That should have been that. Now you're giving him an ultimatum to force him to propose, even though you've already waited a year longer than you agreed to.
If he wanted to marry you, he'd have proposed and, perhaps, asked for a long engagement. Your ultimatum is not going to save the relationship. It will only result in either him dragging his feet some more and still not proposing (at which point you may be tempted to stick around even longer, hoping to get him to change his mind) or he'll reluctantly comply. Either way, at least one of you will be unhappy and resentful of the other.
Apologize for the ultimatum. Accept that he's given you his answer and you can't force him to marry you. Decide if that's a dealbreaker for you and act accordingly.
Borderline Personality Disorder here…I get it.
But seriously. You feel crazy because this isn't healthy. I used to be that paranoid, and I would make myself sick looking for “evidence” I could never find. And if I couldn't find it? That didn't mean there was nothing to find – it's obviously hidden better than I thought!
I was definitely paranoid, and it caused me – and him – so much stress. It really weighed on him that I so blatantly didn't trust him, and there was going to be nothing he could say or do to help me feel better.
I ended up doing extra therapy, as well as adding an antipsychotic to my meds. I had to do a lot of nude work and keep up on my skills practice. But that level of anxiety was going to kill me if I couldn't get it managed.
My heart goes out to you, because I know these feelings are hot to overcome.