if he got into a state she should of called you. i seriously bought hd was crying for that long in a park and she didn’t think oh i better answer tgat my boyfriend might be worried.
There are lot of factors to consider in your case. First, three months is not that long a time. In a relationship this raw, I am guessing that there hasn't been a talk about your future together. So in all probability, he is thinking that you also were looking for something casual and thus this suits you both.
So you need to express your feelings more clearly to him. That you do see a future with him and want him in your life for long term. After he has processed this new information, he may take his own decision regarding the same.
Indians getting married to foreign nationals is not that rare and happens quite regularly so it is not that frowned upon culturally.
This! I was just thinking that have SO much to do this week with prepping for Christmas and doing Hanukkah that I would not have time to sit and read a letter and give it the attention I felt it deserved (she said, typing a comment while browsing Reddit). She won’t get to it until at least Christmas Day evening
I figure if he can play the “my game is live! so I can't pause” thing to avoid doing things like cleaning up after the dog or filling his water cup, I can use my period to get a cheeseburger that I didn't have to make or pick up myself.
Anything I say would depend on how you think he should hold him accountable? You already said that you don’t want him to cut him off so do you think he needs to tell his friend that he’s wrong?
If he doesn’t feel it, he doesn’t feel it, but at the same time you deserve to have someone head over heels in love with you. I just don’t see this relationship going well when after a 1.5 years he can’t even admit to being serious about you…. I’m sorry OP, you can’t force someone to love you. Find someone who does.
She moved 100 miles away to a new life that only lasted 48 ish hours. The dude from her job/training only wanted sex not a full blown relationship and you as back up pitcher can fill in until the next new shiny dude comes along rinse and repeat!! Do not engage her nonsense, she has shown how much she valued you and the relationship she voted with her feet. She is not a long term option she lives a 100 miles away what has truly changed in the 48hrs that produced the massive perception shift. Why is she so sure and committed now! All signs point to a huge dose of reality in whatever form it hit. Find a person who really values you!
Some of them were a little aggressive which made me a little uncomfortable, but I get it for the most part. Reddit and Twitter are common places to vent.
The stuff that bugged me the most were his sexual comments or sexual posts that he liked. There was a picture on Twitter of a girl with an extremely revealing bikini and a pizza next to her and it was captioned something stupid like “are you hungry?” He said “the pizza can wait”
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, but on the second day I ended having a miscarriage
What type of birth control are you using? Just condoms, or were you also on another form of bc?
if he got into a state she should of called you. i seriously bought hd was crying for that long in a park and she didn’t think oh i better answer tgat my boyfriend might be worried.
There are lot of factors to consider in your case. First, three months is not that long a time. In a relationship this raw, I am guessing that there hasn't been a talk about your future together. So in all probability, he is thinking that you also were looking for something casual and thus this suits you both.
So you need to express your feelings more clearly to him. That you do see a future with him and want him in your life for long term. After he has processed this new information, he may take his own decision regarding the same.
Indians getting married to foreign nationals is not that rare and happens quite regularly so it is not that frowned upon culturally.
Good luck.
This! I was just thinking that have SO much to do this week with prepping for Christmas and doing Hanukkah that I would not have time to sit and read a letter and give it the attention I felt it deserved (she said, typing a comment while browsing Reddit). She won’t get to it until at least Christmas Day evening
I figure if he can play the “my game is live! so I can't pause” thing to avoid doing things like cleaning up after the dog or filling his water cup, I can use my period to get a cheeseburger that I didn't have to make or pick up myself.
Great decision.
This could only get worse.
Anything I say would depend on how you think he should hold him accountable? You already said that you don’t want him to cut him off so do you think he needs to tell his friend that he’s wrong?
If your ex doesn’t know you are dating you are better off telling him before he finds out from someone
Thank you. Yeah, I'm not gonna break up with so far perfect girl. I will give her some time and will try to talk with her again
I would let it go. What more closure do you need?
If he doesn’t feel it, he doesn’t feel it, but at the same time you deserve to have someone head over heels in love with you. I just don’t see this relationship going well when after a 1.5 years he can’t even admit to being serious about you…. I’m sorry OP, you can’t force someone to love you. Find someone who does.
She moved 100 miles away to a new life that only lasted 48 ish hours. The dude from her job/training only wanted sex not a full blown relationship and you as back up pitcher can fill in until the next new shiny dude comes along rinse and repeat!! Do not engage her nonsense, she has shown how much she valued you and the relationship she voted with her feet. She is not a long term option she lives a 100 miles away what has truly changed in the 48hrs that produced the massive perception shift. Why is she so sure and committed now! All signs point to a huge dose of reality in whatever form it hit. Find a person who really values you!
Some of them were a little aggressive which made me a little uncomfortable, but I get it for the most part. Reddit and Twitter are common places to vent.
The stuff that bugged me the most were his sexual comments or sexual posts that he liked. There was a picture on Twitter of a girl with an extremely revealing bikini and a pizza next to her and it was captioned something stupid like “are you hungry?” He said “the pizza can wait”
Don't bother or fret.
It may be that your profession as a journalist may be that one thing why she doesn't include you.
Some people assume, journalists will randomly write about them or their friends if let in on certain intimate occasions.
Or you both may value the friendship on another scale.
As she is not your best friend… you may not be hers either.
And she may not consider you as as close an acquaintance as others.
That's how life goes.
Don't fret. It's of no use.
Go enjoy your stay. Perhaps your going solo is a gift rather than a curse.