Give her one kid? It’s not even like it’s that easy especially at her age. There’s only an 18% chance to get pregnant every month and that’s for a healthy 24 year old couple and that % gets much lower as you age. She doesn’t know how fertile she is anymore which would put an unfair amount of pressure on both of you. The risks of birth abnormalities and pregnancy loss is much higher at 40. The pressure alone of trying to make a baby happen could end up costing your relationship. She’s being selfish. I’m a mother of 2 and I couldn’t imagine asking anyone to start over this late in the game when they’ve already gone through the baby phase 4 times. Maybe she’s going through some kind of midlife crisis thing and is thinking more about what she has missed out on or something…because nobody can reasonably expect someone to start over at the point your at.
Honestly I don't understand why you are so stuck-up on this, they are paying customers, they are free to ask for a special request, a restaurant goals is to make money not to offend their clientes by acting rude.
For me if an Oscar winner actor refused *learning new stuff and started acting snobby because they won, then that means they don't want to keep improving, no matter how knowledgeable you think you are in something there is always something new to learn, don't underestimate people
Why is a 27 year old man driving your car?? Look, date a man that has his own car, doesn’t live with his parents, has a job, and benefits. Always run from an almost 30 year old man who has to borrow a barely legal adult’s car.
I agree with everything, but i don’t think consent is always withdrawn when it ends. Consent is subjective for those types of things. Not everyone cares if people keep their pictures. Him being in a relationship now means he shouldnt have them, but if he kept them when they broke up and the girls were ok with it, then he didnt do anything wrong exactly.
Per your other comments, you do everything “because if I don’t, who will?” He knows if he does nothing, you’ll do it. And if you, like some women, jumped right in doing things for him early on to “prove you’re wife material” or nit picked him or redid the task he completed because “he didn’t do it right” You’ve allowed this behavior. I can assure you that there are plenty of men out there who don’t expect their partner to play bangmaid to them and who actually pull their weight.
It’s too late now to just dump his ass—that would have been wise early on. But you sure can insist on couples counseling. And I’d do individual therapy too so you have some backup and can work on creating and maintain boundaries.
u/Goudawithcheese here you go pal, you even replied to this chain. You’re welcome.
Just want to keep my virginity before marriage.
Give her one kid? It’s not even like it’s that easy especially at her age. There’s only an 18% chance to get pregnant every month and that’s for a healthy 24 year old couple and that % gets much lower as you age. She doesn’t know how fertile she is anymore which would put an unfair amount of pressure on both of you. The risks of birth abnormalities and pregnancy loss is much higher at 40. The pressure alone of trying to make a baby happen could end up costing your relationship. She’s being selfish. I’m a mother of 2 and I couldn’t imagine asking anyone to start over this late in the game when they’ve already gone through the baby phase 4 times. Maybe she’s going through some kind of midlife crisis thing and is thinking more about what she has missed out on or something…because nobody can reasonably expect someone to start over at the point your at.
Honestly I don't understand why you are so stuck-up on this, they are paying customers, they are free to ask for a special request, a restaurant goals is to make money not to offend their clientes by acting rude.
For me if an Oscar winner actor refused *learning new stuff and started acting snobby because they won, then that means they don't want to keep improving, no matter how knowledgeable you think you are in something there is always something new to learn, don't underestimate people
Why is a 27 year old man driving your car?? Look, date a man that has his own car, doesn’t live with his parents, has a job, and benefits. Always run from an almost 30 year old man who has to borrow a barely legal adult’s car.
I agree with everything, but i don’t think consent is always withdrawn when it ends. Consent is subjective for those types of things. Not everyone cares if people keep their pictures. Him being in a relationship now means he shouldnt have them, but if he kept them when they broke up and the girls were ok with it, then he didnt do anything wrong exactly.
You’re not a martyr. Stop playing that role.
Per your other comments, you do everything “because if I don’t, who will?” He knows if he does nothing, you’ll do it. And if you, like some women, jumped right in doing things for him early on to “prove you’re wife material” or nit picked him or redid the task he completed because “he didn’t do it right” You’ve allowed this behavior. I can assure you that there are plenty of men out there who don’t expect their partner to play bangmaid to them and who actually pull their weight.
It’s too late now to just dump his ass—that would have been wise early on. But you sure can insist on couples counseling. And I’d do individual therapy too so you have some backup and can work on creating and maintain boundaries.