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Unless you want and are financially ready to have kids, this is a game of Russian roulette you’ll lose.
I didn't mean to make a joke of her gift giving tendencies, I interpreted that advice as meaning the act of opening was the best part rather than the number of actual material gifts and I didn't want her to feel left out of opening things, but I appreciate that that would be how it comes across. Thank you
Try to talk to your mom and your older sister in a very soft tone and ask them this – Could it be possible that you guys are thinking from a perspective that someone is not buying their kid a present? They are projecting their own emotions here. Your younger sister probably doesn't even care since she has already laid out her rules and boundaries, but your mom and sister are the ones who are not able to comprehend those rules and dynamics between you two.
You’re telling this girl to leave her boyfriend of two years because he claims he’s sick when she is lolol.
Yeah, 100%. It means he's a lying selfish sack of shit. Good people wouldn't do what he's doing.
And then telling her “he will not change” as if you somehow have this magical power to know things about people you’ve never met in your life.
He had many times to not do this. It isn't her job to teach him to be a bare minimum acceptable human.
Please don’t take really shitty advice from women on Reddit.
Your advice is that she has to he his mommy and teach him how to be a fucking adult? What? Everyone here is saying it isn't her job to teach him how to behave. And it isn't. Someone half his age knows better. Arguing against that means you think men are more childish, stupid, and self centered than women if you honestly think this is a men vs women issue.
I don't think that. I think this particular guy is a self centered AH. If you think it's a sex thing then that you inserting your own sexism into it. You should view men more highly than that. It's concerning if you think it's acceptable for anyone to act like that guy is, and especially concerning if you think it's acceptable only because he's a guy and that women are wrong for calling it out.
She's your ex.
I know ? I never knew her well though so I never asked her if his views had changed
Jfc I could be reading my own shitty experience, except I was 24 and he was 34.
The first red flag is the fact that he acts more like a 22 yo than you do. He does not have any interest to communicate with you about your (justified) issues. He blocks you which is the technological equivalent to running away from the argument.
I cannot tell you how many time I kept going back to a full ass grown man who treated me like shit but somehow spun it as my youth= me being unreasonable (about being cheated on). Still went back.
As I have aged and come face to face with the finiteness of human life, I realized that no one has time to wait for someone to change.
You are at an age where you should be exploring everything about yourself and not beholden to the whims of man child.
That being said: when you love someone, even if they are awful for you, the love lingers… as well as that weird feeling of, “well I don't want 2 years of my life to be a waste so I better keep trying.”
Nah queen, you good. Once you learn the lesson, move on and learn some new ones until you are 100% sure of what you want in a partner.
You’ve been out with him an few times. I assume you’re a woman. You see no red flags. You’ve gotta as far with him if not further than other women. Would you kiss him? Maybe every time he tells a woman about his empty past, she acts like you are now and assumes something is wrong with him. I imagine at a certain point virginity becomes like a self fulfilling prophecy. The longer you are a virgin the less likely you are to lose your virginity.
To be clear I’m not advocating for him. I’m only saying that without other red flags, this shouldn’t be a red flag. Yellow flag maybe. I would definitely ask him why he thinks he has so little experience.
Don't get back together. This is called backsliding, and it's a bad idea.
He isn't willing to do the work. Go find someone who is
And don't post text conversations in social media; that message wasn't even funny or interesting (not being mean, just honest). Your social is your personal brand; don't clutter it with spam and nonsense and photo dumps. Marie Kondo that shit.
How is someone asking you to get hot manipulating you?
All of a sudden she forgot she had a husband? God, people are so dense.
well first you were groomed so let’s unpack that first
You sound exhausting!
>I would love to marry her but I don’t think she’s Wife material
Define “wife material”? Are you looking for a bang maid?
>. I work a full time job explore my personal hobbies and make sure that I always have time for her. I drive, cook, and clean. As well as make sure I support, encourage, and care for her personal well being.
That's good. That's a good sign of “husband material”
> She works a full time job, only has 2 hobbies, knows how to cook 2-5 things, cleans after it builds up for a while( or unless told to do so).
And how is that bad (unless she's super messy).
> She doesn’t support/ encourage me as much as I’d like
How doesn't she support or encourage you?
>l. I feel like the same love and care I’m putting out I’m not receiving it in return.
IF THE RELATIONSHIP IS ONE SIDED, BREAK UP!
>But I’m not sure how I should tell her that she’s not wife material yet. She has the potential, but lacks the motivation.
Does she even want to be a wife? And what traits are you looking for in a wife?
Would anyone take him? For scientific research, maybe.
The throwing up part I agree with, the walking thing, no. That isnt what an ER is for. Plenty of ppl that cant walk that online in houses, etc.
LOL, yeah nah.