We didn’t have a time set and I was up at the same time he offered to watch a movie the day before and also the day after. It seems like you interpreted the conversation the same way I did, that I woke up too late for the movie and missed the boat. That’s not what he’s saying the problem was though, it’s that after I woke up I made the small talk instead of asking about the movie and then I started running errands. He said he was available to watch the movie when I woke up but I never indicated I wanted to.
Hormonal IUDs are very good birth control. Ive had one for a few years now and my fiancé and I are quite sexually active with no other form of birth control, no scares yet.
However if you two aren’t dating and you live in a place without access to abortion, yeah I’d say it’s not overly paranoid to get her a plan b pill. Although I’d definitely say YOU should buy it, she’s kinda done her part on the contraception with the IUD.
What he wants is not a healthy relationship, but drama. Emotional tests? Expecting you to cry because he wants to spend an evening with friends? Fuck that noise. I've seen teenagers with more emotional maturity.
Yeah I think the key is just talking about and thinking what it would look like with either decision and staying together so they can make the best decisions for themselves. If there’s a foot down moment without that discussion, it’ll just lead to hostility with the inevitable separation, at least discussion and consideration can lead to the best outcome no matter what happens.
And you seem to be ignoring that if it is a physiological response, its one that from what OP says in the main post and in their other comments that stems from a place of conflict avoidance, which is also extremely unhealthy. Its unhealthy for one partner to be the savior figure for conflict avoidant behaviors.
Sure, this one comment doesn't bring the possibility that OP is the root cause of the nausea and vomiting, but the framing of the post doesn't make it seem like that would be the case. And the comments that OP has posted also make it clear that at least from the information OP has provided that OP likely isnt the cause.
He is a good liar like he’ll stick with a story. But he says he’s changing that and working on it etc and he said I didn’t give him a space safe to be honest lmao
If you are controlling your feelings, does this mean you haven't had crushes or you haven't acted on them. If you have had them, but not told your SO is that lying by omission?
I don't tell my husband of 18 years about my crushes, because I know they come and go. Likewise he has crushes that he doesn't tell me about. Though it's clear sometimes he has them.
I think crushes in a marriage are fine and normal.
hi! he has been going through some mental health issues but aside from that it’s been really good! obvs it isn’t as we first started dating (we were both in college) but now he’s working full time and i’m on my 3rd year of college.
I feel like I literally just died. I’ve invested so much into this woman I can’t believe she did this to me.
We didn’t have a time set and I was up at the same time he offered to watch a movie the day before and also the day after. It seems like you interpreted the conversation the same way I did, that I woke up too late for the movie and missed the boat. That’s not what he’s saying the problem was though, it’s that after I woke up I made the small talk instead of asking about the movie and then I started running errands. He said he was available to watch the movie when I woke up but I never indicated I wanted to.
No
Hormonal IUDs are very good birth control. Ive had one for a few years now and my fiancé and I are quite sexually active with no other form of birth control, no scares yet.
However if you two aren’t dating and you live in a place without access to abortion, yeah I’d say it’s not overly paranoid to get her a plan b pill. Although I’d definitely say YOU should buy it, she’s kinda done her part on the contraception with the IUD.
It's rare that people admit the full extent and detail of what they did.
Dude we can only work with what's being said.
And she said she got her clients into very bad situations.
What he wants is not a healthy relationship, but drama. Emotional tests? Expecting you to cry because he wants to spend an evening with friends? Fuck that noise. I've seen teenagers with more emotional maturity.
Completely hear what you're saying, thank you
Yeah I think the key is just talking about and thinking what it would look like with either decision and staying together so they can make the best decisions for themselves. If there’s a foot down moment without that discussion, it’ll just lead to hostility with the inevitable separation, at least discussion and consideration can lead to the best outcome no matter what happens.
You were groomed to think this way. I’m so sorry for you. Either way you’re an idiot for getting into this “relationship”
And you seem to be ignoring that if it is a physiological response, its one that from what OP says in the main post and in their other comments that stems from a place of conflict avoidance, which is also extremely unhealthy. Its unhealthy for one partner to be the savior figure for conflict avoidant behaviors.
Sure, this one comment doesn't bring the possibility that OP is the root cause of the nausea and vomiting, but the framing of the post doesn't make it seem like that would be the case. And the comments that OP has posted also make it clear that at least from the information OP has provided that OP likely isnt the cause.
What exactly are the political / religious beliefs you both have if you don’t mind me asking?
Okay ?
Maybe he wants to be on a break while you stay preoccupied with him and the relationship.?
He is a good liar like he’ll stick with a story. But he says he’s changing that and working on it etc and he said I didn’t give him a space safe to be honest lmao
If you are controlling your feelings, does this mean you haven't had crushes or you haven't acted on them. If you have had them, but not told your SO is that lying by omission?
I don't tell my husband of 18 years about my crushes, because I know they come and go. Likewise he has crushes that he doesn't tell me about. Though it's clear sometimes he has them.
I think crushes in a marriage are fine and normal.
hi! he has been going through some mental health issues but aside from that it’s been really good! obvs it isn’t as we first started dating (we were both in college) but now he’s working full time and i’m on my 3rd year of college.