Yeah that sounds about right. Maybe some bread with cheese or ham or butter lol
But as a Brazilian I don’t think it’s offensive or racist. Maybe he’s just sensitive or was having a bad day. Doesn’t seem like a reason to stop talking to you at all ?
They live! 3 minutes from you. Just take the underwear over there and tell them it got mixed up with your laundry. You'll be able to tell by their reaction what the truth is even if they try to cover for her. But, you left for work. That underwear will be gonna by the time you get home.
no this isn't waved away by whatever he was going through back then. He's proven to be a very dishonest person so the way he currently is that's “not like that” is not real. You shouldn't trust anything about him.
Also let's pretend that really was just because of his depression and the dark place he was in. If you stay with him, life is going to throw more darkness at him (it does this to all of us at times) and if his depression gets worse again you won't be safe. I really don't think you're safe anyway but you definitely can't think you're long term safety isn't at risk with this guy.
This sounds like something she's been into since before you met her and I don't think it would be right for you to impose your beliefs on her in this case. If you don't want to date a Disney adult, then just date someone else from the rest of the 99% of the adult singles market who aren't Disney adults.
My parents ran a home daycare and I was homeschooled. If you’re lucky it’s just tugging, often times they’re sick and using your clothing as a tissue. One of the many, many reasons I had my tubes tied at 22 and childless. Touch is a big thing for me since I have sensory issues, bad ADD and CPTSD. Children do a lot of touching (and screaming) when you don't expect it, hard pass.
Yeah no, her wording is basically the same as you said, you did the right thing breaking up with her, she would become more and more abusive towards you with anyone else! I'm so so so sorry she broke this, hope you can re-do it with your mother anytime soon. You did the right thing!
There’s no way to make this not sound harsh but: it appears very much like you are trusted… to have over the top inappropriate reactions to things, and your loved ones act accordingly.
It sounds like you're a child being punished by a shitty parent. I'm not sure why the goal isn't something sustainable, unless he thinks you can just be positive forever
Where do you get this information from? And even if it were that way, isn't it good for this stuff to end? Let's not make assumptions and give our opinion on something else than we know. And even what we know is only part of the story told by one of the parties.
I think this is an age thing. I always get downvoted on here when I point out that I’m friends with almost all of my ex’s and wouldn’t tolerate a new partner expecting me to cut out friends from my life that were there before them. I find it controlling and rife with a level of insecurity and lack of trust that makes me uncomfortable.
I feel like younger folks are much more stringent with the whole ‘it’s disrespectful to still talk to someone you used to sleep with’ line, whereas the older you get and the more partners you have you realise that sometimes you really can just see you’re not well suited to being in a relationship with someone but still value their friendship.
I guess my question is do i break up with him over this or do I toughen it out and hope itll get better?
Yeah that sounds about right. Maybe some bread with cheese or ham or butter lol
But as a Brazilian I don’t think it’s offensive or racist. Maybe he’s just sensitive or was having a bad day. Doesn’t seem like a reason to stop talking to you at all ?
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They live! 3 minutes from you. Just take the underwear over there and tell them it got mixed up with your laundry. You'll be able to tell by their reaction what the truth is even if they try to cover for her. But, you left for work. That underwear will be gonna by the time you get home.
no this isn't waved away by whatever he was going through back then. He's proven to be a very dishonest person so the way he currently is that's “not like that” is not real. You shouldn't trust anything about him.
Also let's pretend that really was just because of his depression and the dark place he was in. If you stay with him, life is going to throw more darkness at him (it does this to all of us at times) and if his depression gets worse again you won't be safe. I really don't think you're safe anyway but you definitely can't think you're long term safety isn't at risk with this guy.
She cheated and she’s a lesbian. Happy birthday!
What a ringing endorsement
This sounds like something she's been into since before you met her and I don't think it would be right for you to impose your beliefs on her in this case. If you don't want to date a Disney adult, then just date someone else from the rest of the 99% of the adult singles market who aren't Disney adults.
My parents ran a home daycare and I was homeschooled. If you’re lucky it’s just tugging, often times they’re sick and using your clothing as a tissue. One of the many, many reasons I had my tubes tied at 22 and childless. Touch is a big thing for me since I have sensory issues, bad ADD and CPTSD. Children do a lot of touching (and screaming) when you don't expect it, hard pass.
Yeah no, her wording is basically the same as you said, you did the right thing breaking up with her, she would become more and more abusive towards you with anyone else! I'm so so so sorry she broke this, hope you can re-do it with your mother anytime soon. You did the right thing!
Leave him when he is gone. Do not tell him anything. Talk to the police. Protect yourself from him. Good luck
Turns out free will is just determinism with extra steps
She won't come back, but yes I can do better
There’s no way to make this not sound harsh but: it appears very much like you are trusted… to have over the top inappropriate reactions to things, and your loved ones act accordingly.
What kind of events are we talking?
It sounds like you're a child being punished by a shitty parent. I'm not sure why the goal isn't something sustainable, unless he thinks you can just be positive forever
Where do you get this information from? And even if it were that way, isn't it good for this stuff to end? Let's not make assumptions and give our opinion on something else than we know. And even what we know is only part of the story told by one of the parties.
I think this is an age thing. I always get downvoted on here when I point out that I’m friends with almost all of my ex’s and wouldn’t tolerate a new partner expecting me to cut out friends from my life that were there before them. I find it controlling and rife with a level of insecurity and lack of trust that makes me uncomfortable.
I feel like younger folks are much more stringent with the whole ‘it’s disrespectful to still talk to someone you used to sleep with’ line, whereas the older you get and the more partners you have you realise that sometimes you really can just see you’re not well suited to being in a relationship with someone but still value their friendship.
Nope..don't let the stupid rub off on you.
Insight! Thanks for making that connection regarding overstimulation and controlling behaviour. Huh.