I think everything you’re feeling is totally expected considering the circumstances, and I just want to express my empathy and heartbreak for your wife and your family.
I think your feelings around this issue are 100% necessary for you to explore and process, but you will probably have to do it without your wife, either with a therapist or your own support system.
I can’t even imagine what this is like for both of you, so I just wish you all the best and I hope you both can find healing after this terrible time.
You don't need to have a “valid” reason to break up with someone, simply wanting to end the relationship is reason enough. But I agree with you, having a secret image folder shows he is being deceptive and it's worth listening to your gut feeling.
There is no such thing as a slight addiction. My advice to you is consider how much you are willing to put up with, because he won't change, it will likely be a matter of time before he is cheating or entering high risk or illegal sexual situations.
It could have been the added stress of a new job, or she possibly saw and/or heard something that made her jealous/suspicious about you at work. People in the work place tend to gossip. Have you ever hooked up with or dated anyone from your job?
No, I am referring to the love I feel for him, not the other way around. I hate how he makes me feel but I would never dream of having eyes for anyone else. Things started great, the abuse didn’t really start until the cheating did which is pathetic but how it is.
I think everything you’re feeling is totally expected considering the circumstances, and I just want to express my empathy and heartbreak for your wife and your family.
I think your feelings around this issue are 100% necessary for you to explore and process, but you will probably have to do it without your wife, either with a therapist or your own support system.
I can’t even imagine what this is like for both of you, so I just wish you all the best and I hope you both can find healing after this terrible time.
You don't need to have a “valid” reason to break up with someone, simply wanting to end the relationship is reason enough. But I agree with you, having a secret image folder shows he is being deceptive and it's worth listening to your gut feeling.
There is no such thing as a slight addiction. My advice to you is consider how much you are willing to put up with, because he won't change, it will likely be a matter of time before he is cheating or entering high risk or illegal sexual situations.
It is cheating.
You need to absolutely go through him and kick him out.
It could have been the added stress of a new job, or she possibly saw and/or heard something that made her jealous/suspicious about you at work. People in the work place tend to gossip. Have you ever hooked up with or dated anyone from your job?
I wear earplugs and sunglasses at concerts bc I also HATE bright lights.
Same
No, I am referring to the love I feel for him, not the other way around. I hate how he makes me feel but I would never dream of having eyes for anyone else. Things started great, the abuse didn’t really start until the cheating did which is pathetic but how it is.