Thank you so much for that insight. Its really inspiring to hear from someone who is similar to her, and that it's not impossible to overcome.
I've found that since she has been laid off and the family tragedy, she has been much more lethargic and sleeping terrible times because she doesn't have work to fill those hours in her day.
It is heartbreaking because we are 2 hours away that I am not able to support them as much as I could, but I agree. I need her to be my partner and not for me to be their parent.
I have helped with finding jobs, helping with her CV, practising interview skills and mock interviews. My profession helps with that. It's why it felt like a kick in the teeth to find out she rearranged / cancelled an upcoming interview because of the aforementioned reasons.
I mean, I can’t get off from just hand stimulation. It has to be a vibrator and penetration. Especially bc my partner doesn’t like eating pussy lol. So maybe that’s why I was confused why it was a problem she brought up the vibrator as something they could try. I totally understand the lying part – and get why he’d be angry/upset about that.
He could bring that cake with a giant penis on it that shoots whip cream at your face when you blown out the candles. Bet that would be a hoot to them ?????
If it eats at you, leave her for your own sake. But honestly man, she’s with you for a reason. She likes something about you. Identify what that something is. How you react to this is going to define how the rest of the relationship (or how the breakup) is bound to go, so move wisely. IMO- if you’re fuckin then you’re fuckin, doesn’t matter how endowed either of you are, what matters is the connection during intercourse. This probably didn’t help, but I hope you’re able to move forward with a level head.
I was reading this whole post with my mouth agape. And yeah, you cannot have children with a man who leaves a poop imprint on a couch. Like, this guy has a very bad breakdown of his mental ability to function. Holy shit
He said he “wants me to be with someone better” that he isn’t good enough and stuff. But like anytime I mention I’m talking to guys he gets jealous and mad and tells me not to
yea people assume now, and they also think you sleep around to get ahead. You want to make it in life, it’s already hot as a woman in the corporate world, stop fucking your bosses and your coworkers. Lesson learned, I hope.
Easy. Just tell them what’s going on with you. If they’re good friends, they’ll be understanding.
Thank you so much for that insight. Its really inspiring to hear from someone who is similar to her, and that it's not impossible to overcome.
I've found that since she has been laid off and the family tragedy, she has been much more lethargic and sleeping terrible times because she doesn't have work to fill those hours in her day.
It is heartbreaking because we are 2 hours away that I am not able to support them as much as I could, but I agree. I need her to be my partner and not for me to be their parent.
I have helped with finding jobs, helping with her CV, practising interview skills and mock interviews. My profession helps with that. It's why it felt like a kick in the teeth to find out she rearranged / cancelled an upcoming interview because of the aforementioned reasons.
It's not blatantly obvious. Relationships fail for a million different reasons. People get therapy for a million different reasons.
I mean, I can’t get off from just hand stimulation. It has to be a vibrator and penetration. Especially bc my partner doesn’t like eating pussy lol. So maybe that’s why I was confused why it was a problem she brought up the vibrator as something they could try. I totally understand the lying part – and get why he’d be angry/upset about that.
So what should I do instead? Not try?
He could bring that cake with a giant penis on it that shoots whip cream at your face when you blown out the candles. Bet that would be a hoot to them ?????
Hey, AH, making slightly more money doesn't excuse you from getting out of bed and doing your fair share of care for a baby at night.
Wow, you really hate your wife.
She almost died.
Your mom showed up and harassed her while she was at the most dangerous, lowest point in her life.
She almost DIED.
Her genitals are torn to shit and you are already pissy she won't bang you and have a bazillion more kids, who cares if she DIES in the process.
She isn't interested in more kids and she's well on her way to hating YOU.
If it eats at you, leave her for your own sake. But honestly man, she’s with you for a reason. She likes something about you. Identify what that something is. How you react to this is going to define how the rest of the relationship (or how the breakup) is bound to go, so move wisely. IMO- if you’re fuckin then you’re fuckin, doesn’t matter how endowed either of you are, what matters is the connection during intercourse. This probably didn’t help, but I hope you’re able to move forward with a level head.
My gut says you need to raise the bar. I can’t imagine that this is a good start to a relationship.
I was reading this whole post with my mouth agape. And yeah, you cannot have children with a man who leaves a poop imprint on a couch. Like, this guy has a very bad breakdown of his mental ability to function. Holy shit
Changing jobs is not your fault. Changing jobs is something she brings on herself for getting too close to him. It's a consequence of her behavior.
He said he “wants me to be with someone better” that he isn’t good enough and stuff. But like anytime I mention I’m talking to guys he gets jealous and mad and tells me not to
yea people assume now, and they also think you sleep around to get ahead. You want to make it in life, it’s already hot as a woman in the corporate world, stop fucking your bosses and your coworkers. Lesson learned, I hope.