OP, I know you are only saying this because you feel trapped and like you have no choice but to make yourself content with the situation you are in.
Someone else said to gather evidence of all the expenses you have been paying for. Please do so and then talk to a lawyer. Don't just assume you have no case and your little one will be taken from you. Also, it doesn't sound like this man wants the responsibility, considering how he has been preparing for an easy separation. I think he is taking advantage of you while he can but if you leave he may very well wash his hands of both you and your baby.
It sounds like you are also grieving some of your hopes and dreams, marriage and a loving little family.
I highly recommend the book “Should I Stay Or Should I Go? A Guide to Knowing If Your Relationship Can–And Should–be Saved” by JAC Patrissi and Lundy Bancroft. Get it today, it will help you find the path forward that you're looking for.
No. I think it's quite reasonable. I got MY degree, I take care of MY body and am absolutely gorgeous. I may not be the richest but that's the man's job. Ain't no convincing me otherwise
Thanks for being straight up. Sounds like you've been through some things and I'm glad you're in therapy and getting help to grow and heal through those difficulties.
What are the things that he does do to show you her cares?
I grew up poor too, I know how hard it can be to be generous with money sometimes.
He may not be able to do it yet or ever.
How did you fall in love? What was it like in the beginning? There's a time in the past he must've made you feel loved and special
Lots of people are saying to get him a gift card and I agree. Or get him a nice card that just says you’ll take him shopping wherever he’d like.
Ask her, they may not have f’d already but he could have a thing for her. Him not taking your side is sketchy
He is a great partner and good father…
OP, I know you are only saying this because you feel trapped and like you have no choice but to make yourself content with the situation you are in.
Someone else said to gather evidence of all the expenses you have been paying for. Please do so and then talk to a lawyer. Don't just assume you have no case and your little one will be taken from you. Also, it doesn't sound like this man wants the responsibility, considering how he has been preparing for an easy separation. I think he is taking advantage of you while he can but if you leave he may very well wash his hands of both you and your baby.
It sounds like you are also grieving some of your hopes and dreams, marriage and a loving little family.
I highly recommend the book “Should I Stay Or Should I Go? A Guide to Knowing If Your Relationship Can–And Should–be Saved” by JAC Patrissi and Lundy Bancroft. Get it today, it will help you find the path forward that you're looking for.
No. I think it's quite reasonable. I got MY degree, I take care of MY body and am absolutely gorgeous. I may not be the richest but that's the man's job. Ain't no convincing me otherwise
You can’t control other women trying to get close to your boyfriend. It’s up to him to reject their advances.
Thanks for being straight up. Sounds like you've been through some things and I'm glad you're in therapy and getting help to grow and heal through those difficulties.
What are the things that he does do to show you her cares?
I grew up poor too, I know how hard it can be to be generous with money sometimes.
He may not be able to do it yet or ever.
How did you fall in love? What was it like in the beginning? There's a time in the past he must've made you feel loved and special
“bye” will do
Used to do something like that but it's a lot more work and communication. Now I don't need to think about it.