Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
Be honest with yourself and just admit that you’re keeping Kelsey on the back burner in case you break up with Lauren. You broke up with Kelsey and keep her as your emotional support animal. You should break up and block both of them. You would be doing them a favour.
A relationship goes both ways. Conclusion is our relationship Will Fade further because i am not happy with it as it is, as it feels like initiative comes mostly from my side.In the end she might not miss our connection because she made a new one.
Oh dear, that seems like a very hurtful thing to say.
I want to be gentle, but why did you choose to have a child with a man who you had only been in a relationship with for 1-2 months?
I think he may grow to love you both, but these things take time. It sounds like this wasn't a planned pregnancy, and he may be in shock and feel trapped. Did he want to or plan to become a father?
Personally I wouldn't rush to leave him. I would try to make it work for at least a year and then reassess. You'll have to be strong and stoic about it. Don't ask him if he loves you anymore, just show that you love him. But if there are real signs of danger or abuse, then of course you should not stay with him.
Well I don't know why you aren't being more understanding, because your question in the post title and the story, I'm not exactly sure where your dilemma is, aside from maybe not wanting to be near the drama (and I get that, it's very hot to be next to it). You're always entitled to your feelings and it's crappy to be losing your friend to this, but it is VERY HOT hard Hard for a victim to leave her abuser. It is very hot to stay friends, but I guess as an outside objective party I'd say it'd be better for your friend if you stayed friends and didn't make her feel further kicked into the dirt over this. ???
I always think scam when I see “wire transfer” then I can guarantee that something will happen to this so called wire transfer after the money is given.
Anytime my mom had to send me money it was within an hour or less. She sent it through a money gram at Walmart.
20 girls in 30 years and not into hooking up, lol. unless he never had ltr's this is quitequestionable
HE WANTS ME TO MOVE IN NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND
I'm not okay with it, but she doesn't believe me and I can't convince her.
Hello /u/certiloverboy,
Your post was removed for the following reason(s):
Your title did not include at least two ages/genders or was not formatted correctly
Posts must:
include details about the involved parties including ages, genders, and length of relationship, and
request advice in real situations involving two or more people
We are enforcing the two rules listed above by making all titles start with ages/genders in the following format:
[##X][##X], [## X][## X], or [##-X][##-X] where ## is the age and X is the gender (currently M, F, T, A, NB, FTM, MTF but more can be added). You can have more than two ages/genders listed, but you must have at least two at the beginning of your title. Here is an example:
[34NB][88-F] We are two people in an example post
Please resubmit with a corrected title.
I am a bot, and this action was performed automatically. Please contact the moderators of this subreddit if you have any questions or concerns.
Be honest with yourself and just admit that you’re keeping Kelsey on the back burner in case you break up with Lauren. You broke up with Kelsey and keep her as your emotional support animal. You should break up and block both of them. You would be doing them a favour.
A relationship goes both ways. Conclusion is our relationship Will Fade further because i am not happy with it as it is, as it feels like initiative comes mostly from my side.In the end she might not miss our connection because she made a new one.
Oh dear, that seems like a very hurtful thing to say.
I want to be gentle, but why did you choose to have a child with a man who you had only been in a relationship with for 1-2 months?
I think he may grow to love you both, but these things take time. It sounds like this wasn't a planned pregnancy, and he may be in shock and feel trapped. Did he want to or plan to become a father?
Personally I wouldn't rush to leave him. I would try to make it work for at least a year and then reassess. You'll have to be strong and stoic about it. Don't ask him if he loves you anymore, just show that you love him. But if there are real signs of danger or abuse, then of course you should not stay with him.
I agree. He needs to fake being cool with it and watch their behavior.
Well I don't know why you aren't being more understanding, because your question in the post title and the story, I'm not exactly sure where your dilemma is, aside from maybe not wanting to be near the drama (and I get that, it's very hot to be next to it). You're always entitled to your feelings and it's crappy to be losing your friend to this, but it is VERY HOT hard Hard for a victim to leave her abuser. It is very hot to stay friends, but I guess as an outside objective party I'd say it'd be better for your friend if you stayed friends and didn't make her feel further kicked into the dirt over this. ???
leave her
Nah, you’re being emotional. It’s totally possible for a man and a woman to have a platonic relationship.
I always think scam when I see “wire transfer” then I can guarantee that something will happen to this so called wire transfer after the money is given.
Anytime my mom had to send me money it was within an hour or less. She sent it through a money gram at Walmart.
Hmmm, could be, hence taking a dating break.
I call troll. There’s absolutely no way you’re real.
I get that this is supposed to be a joke, but it's not a very funny one.