The crucial difference being that you would get it for a present not just because a few DAYS before the biggest gift/present event of the year. Don’t forget that he specifically mentioned that it wasn’t a Christmas present.
I hope OP updates this after Christmas cause if that’s the just because, can you imagine the Christmas present?!
I think the only reason I'm even entertaining it right now, is that I have nothing else going on in terms of dating or relationships. This is a good chance. I'm moving to another part of the country in the summer So I've been relatively closed to dating for the time being
By all means, try to save this marriage if that is what you really want. But you need to prepare yourself that this may not be salvageable.
It sounds like he may be abusive, and now that he has you trapped, he can finally let his true self shine because he knows you won’t leave him. If you do confront him, try to have someone present because he could become violent. Unfortunately when abusers get called out, their behaviour can escalate dramatically. So keep an eye out for that.
I would suggest seeking help from a domestic violence organisation, just in case. They might be able to give you some good advice on how to safely navigate through this.
But make sure that you have people you can trust to lean on through this. Hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. Give him the benefit of the doubt, but be prepared to end it if things don’t improve.
I used to date a woman who would take her clothes off for semi very hot photography. However, it took her yesrs to build a relationship with a photographer. We even did a photo shoot together. This seems pervy
He’s going to say he was just looking for validation because he’s lonely, or has low self esteem, or you’ve been neglecting him. Or he’s just looking for friends even though no one looks on Tinder for friends. Those excuses seem to be what all cheating partners say when they’re caught on dating apps.
The only person who should have complete control over your child's academic decisions is your child, so there's that.
This is weirdly controlling and honestly I'm intrigued to know what the frick is up with this guy, because his behaviour afterwards is also super strange. INFO: why didn't he propose to you? Are you sure this is what he wants or is he just going along with it?
Not together. He is still asking to get back together but I really dont think it's good idea. Thank you.
The crucial difference being that you would get it for a present not just because a few DAYS before the biggest gift/present event of the year. Don’t forget that he specifically mentioned that it wasn’t a Christmas present.
I hope OP updates this after Christmas cause if that’s the just because, can you imagine the Christmas present?!
Haha agreed LMAO.
I think the only reason I'm even entertaining it right now, is that I have nothing else going on in terms of dating or relationships. This is a good chance. I'm moving to another part of the country in the summer So I've been relatively closed to dating for the time being
I appreciate the apologies. I don't think it'll hurt to take some of the solid advice here and try to save the relationship.
Definitely!!! She should be taking this for the red flag it is.
By all means, try to save this marriage if that is what you really want. But you need to prepare yourself that this may not be salvageable.
It sounds like he may be abusive, and now that he has you trapped, he can finally let his true self shine because he knows you won’t leave him. If you do confront him, try to have someone present because he could become violent. Unfortunately when abusers get called out, their behaviour can escalate dramatically. So keep an eye out for that.
I would suggest seeking help from a domestic violence organisation, just in case. They might be able to give you some good advice on how to safely navigate through this.
But make sure that you have people you can trust to lean on through this. Hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst. Give him the benefit of the doubt, but be prepared to end it if things don’t improve.
My questions were not an attack.
Good luck.
I used to date a woman who would take her clothes off for semi very hot photography. However, it took her yesrs to build a relationship with a photographer. We even did a photo shoot together. This seems pervy
He’s going to say he was just looking for validation because he’s lonely, or has low self esteem, or you’ve been neglecting him. Or he’s just looking for friends even though no one looks on Tinder for friends. Those excuses seem to be what all cheating partners say when they’re caught on dating apps.
Doubt it. They are all in a other language too which makes me more scared. The amount of disgust I had was unimaginable
Why would she share this with you? People have no sense and no filter.
I predict this dude ain’t gonna keep up and shes gonna find some side dick. At least that’s what every story I’ve read on here with the similar story.
The only person who should have complete control over your child's academic decisions is your child, so there's that.
This is weirdly controlling and honestly I'm intrigued to know what the frick is up with this guy, because his behaviour afterwards is also super strange. INFO: why didn't he propose to you? Are you sure this is what he wants or is he just going along with it?
You’re both like 12 year olds